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Pity me post I guess (PG Mentioned NOT mine)

TIFFANYTORRES1984TIFFANYTORRES1984
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Okay so I just went on FB and my BFF PM'd me telling me that she did'nt want me to see it on FB and I am literally the first person she has told (even before relatives) that she  is 6 weeks. UGH I have had a horrible day already and now I have to deal with this. We don't live close to each other anymore due to us being military so at least I don't have to see her growing and stuff. Don't get me wrong I AM EXTREMELY HAPPY for her, I am  just feeling sorry for myself. I told her thank you so much for telling me and CONGRATS. I guess it just really hurts, I see other PG people and it does'nt bother me TOO much, but this was just a stab in the gut. I should have known it was coming because when I told her I was PG back in August she said that her and her DH were going to start trying for another one in Oct (this month). Okay well I guess I am doing with the pity me party. Thanks for listening!

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  • linfor2linfor2 member
    So sorry ((Hugs)) Even when you know its coming its still hard
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  • amandachsamandachs member

    I'm so sorry that her news compounded your bad day.  (((Hugs)))  It still sucks, but it was kind of her to tell you in a "you can read this message and reply to it when your ready" way versus calling you on the phone and putting you on the spot having to suck up a fake "Congratulations!!" when what you really want to do is toss your cookies.  Chin up buttercup, our turn is coming Wink

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  • mandac033mandac033 member
    I'm so sorry hun! It's so hard to hear sometimes even though you truly are excited for them. ((HUGS))
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  • orangegogglesorangegoggles member
    (hugs) I know what you mean when you say you are happy for her but sad for yourself. It is so hard.
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  • charmedgrl517charmedgrl517 member
    ((HUGS)) I know understand the feeling and it sucks :(  It will be our turn one day hopefully very soon!! :)

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  • LaTi07LaTi07 member
    (hugs) You're happy for her, you don't have to be happy with her. That will come in time. You're time will come, it may not feel like that, but it will. In the mean time, we're here so vent as much as you need.

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  • amandachsamandachs member

    imageLaTi07:
    (hugs) You're happy for her, you don't have to be happy with her. That will come in time. You're time will come, it may not feel like that, but it will. In the mean time, we're here so vent as much as you need.

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  • bluebonnetmegbluebonnetmeg member
    imageamandachs:

    imageLaTi07:
    (hugs) You're happy for her, you don't have to be happy with her. That will come in time. You're time will come, it may not feel like that, but it will. In the mean time, we're here so vent as much as you need.

    Yes Well said.

    I was about to quote that too! It is so very true. ((hugs))

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  • TIFFANYTORRES1984TIFFANYTORRES1984
    I want to thank you all so much for you encouraging words. I don't know where I would be without this board, no one really "GETS" how I feel and why  I get depressed when someone mentions a PG even my DH does'nt get it. You alll are absolutely AMAZING  :)
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