Well that was unexpected...

Zimger · October 2011

Last week I had a husband, my baby was doing great, and I was anticipating starting a new job. This week my baby is still doing great and I still am looking forward to a new job, but I have no husband. Turns out he's been cheating on me. That blows. So I am getting a new apartment closer to my job and moving. He'll still see the baby of course, but I am terribly hurt and dissapointed. This week isn't off to a great start

526SadieSadie · October 2011

Oh my...I'm so terribly sorry to hear this!

MrsMincks · October 2011

OMG. I am SO sorry...the same thing happened to my mom when she was pregnant with my brother. She found out right after he was born :-( I wish I could tell you something wise and brilliant right now, but there's just no piece of universal advice I can give. I hope everything works out for the best and if you need to talk, we're all here for you.

lcloffredo · October 2011

I'm so sorry! But I have to say good for you for having the guts to leave him. That takes a really strong person.

danlexi04 · October 2011

Wow. I'm really sorry! I hope everything works itself out for you.

metzy144 · October 2011

Oh my goodness, how terrible! I am so sorry.

MrsMincks · October 2011

And hey, look on the bright side - you've got your new job and a beautiful baby to keep you anchored through all this!

MrsMincks · October 2011

Oh, and a whole crew of hormonal ladies who can lay the beatdown on him if necessary.

Duckie205 · October 2011

Oh honey, I am so sorry. No words can express the pain I feel for you. DH and I went through a really really rough patch at the beginning of this year, I won't get into details, but it was a form of what your DH did. It was extremely hard to get through, but somehow we did. You will be stronger from it and whatever you decide with your future is your choice. PM me is you'd like to talk more. Take care.

murph317 · October 2011

I am SOOO sorry!!

Irisheyes1247 · October 2011

I am so sorry to hear this.

Lisichka · October 2011

OMG, I'm so sorry about all of this! That is horrible! Hang in there!

allybride07 · October 2011

What a jerk!!! I'm so sorry that you are going through this!!!

Floridamom224 · October 2011

I am so so sorry. We are here for you!!!!

KCur · October 2011

You're better off without him! You don't need that dead weight hanging around. I am sorry you are going through a rough patch. I am impressed with how quick you got your big girl pants on and came up with a plan. You go mama!

Fergie+1 · October 2011

Good for you for leaving, but I'm sorry that it had to happen at such time in your life where you already have so much going on.

momamatthews · October 2011

What a jerk! It sounds like you have a plan though, good for you. Way to kick him to the curb and put yourself and your baby first! You are going to be a fabulous Moma!

countrygrl5533 · October 2011

That is a tough thing to deal with at any time, but especially now. I'm sorry you are having to go through this. Are you planning on going to counseling or is it over for sure?

Zimger · October 2011

countrygrl5533:
That is a tough thing to deal with at any time, but especially now. I'm sorry you are having to go through this. Are you planning on going to counseling or is it over for sure?

Zimger · October 2011

countrygrl5533:
That is a tough thing to deal with at any time, but especially now. I'm sorry you are having to go through this. Are you planning on going to counseling or is it over for sure?

KatieMarie27 · October 2011

Take him for all he's worth, the cheating ba$tard

Zimger · October 2011

countrygrl5533:
That is a tough thing to deal with at any time, but especially now. I'm sorry you are having to go through this. Are you planning on going to counseling or is it over for sure?

Sorry my computer is being goofy. Yes, we will be going to counseling. In the meantime we will be separated. I think counseling is the best route because we have to figure out how to make thinks flow smoothly as possible. Even if we aren't together we still need to make it easier on the baby.

cinamoniz · October 2011

OMG...unexpected is right! First, other than being completely blindsided, I hope you are okay....I can't even imagine. Second, what a douche! (sorry, that's my gut reaction.) I always tell myself that everything happens for a reason, even though, right now, you don't know what that reason is. Ultimately, I hope that you are able to do what's best for you and your LO, whether it's working things out or moving on.

Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and that you have lots of support here with us

Take care of yourself.

countrygrl5533 · October 2011

Zimger:

Sorry my computer is being goofy. Yes, we will be going to counseling. In the meantime we will be separated. I think counseling is the best route because we have to figure out how to make thinks flow smoothly as possible for the baby.

Sounds like you have a plan then. That's good. I agree. Even if you do end up getting a divorce, the counseling will definitely help with the baby and all that surrounds that. :::hug:::

MamaValley · October 2011

Oh no!!! :-( I am so sorry to hear it. Speaking from experience here, you did the right thing in leaving him. I know it may not feel like it now, but things WILL get easier and better. You have a beautiful baby on the way, a new job to look forward to, and you get a fresh start. You are a lucky girl, with nothing but bright possibilities heading your way!! Hugs!!

bigv44 · October 2011

I am sorry!

Best of luck in the new job, & new move!! (((HUGS)))

LauraSmarterSpam · October 2011

Holy smokes! That is terrible.

Your husband totally blows! Some amazing guy will come along, and treat you and LO right.

kmberman · October 2011

lcloffredo:
I'm so sorry! But I have to say good for you for having the guts to leave him. That takes a really strong person.

This! I am so sorry, but you sound like a very stong woman to be able to pack up and leave!

ktekne · October 2011

Sorry you're going through all this... I went through a similar situation. The first time I found out, it was an emotional afair (I was around 20 weeks pregnant) & we went to counceling. It never completely ended and I figured it out for sure when DD was 4 months old. I left for 2 months while he got his act together. You're very strong for being able to leave... it isn't easy but sometimes is the best thing to do. Good luck with the new job and good luck with making the best decision for you and your baby where your marriage is concerned!