Community› The Bump Message Boards› Late Term and Child Loss
Late Term and Child Loss
New Discussion

Time

ruthymusneyruthymusney member
in Late Term and Child Loss
Does it just creep by after your loss? I feel like my life is in slow motion right now.
<a href="http://s552.photobucket.com/albums/jj348/RuthyMunsey/?action=view
Report Reply to Post

Re: Time

  • lovemymaddylovemymaddy
    I was just writing about this the other day. Sometimes it does seem to go soooo slow because it feels like each day just crawls by. However I can still remember everything that happened so vividly that it seems like yesterday you know? And still in other ways it feels like none of this every happened and that we should wake up any day now and Timmy will be here safe and healthy and happy.  :(  
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • Nesting.AwayNesting.Away

    I remember that is how it was in the beginning. Now time goes by at a pretty normal pace. I still relive the day we lost Sophia every day and sometimes it haunts me, but I don't feel like I am in a fog all the time anymore.

    Your loss is still so fresh. Let yourself take the time you need, no matter how long it seems. ((hugs))

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty

    I hate that we have to go through this... It's opposite for me. I woke up this morning and could not believe 3 weeks have gone by since I said good bye. I wish I could rewind time so badly. :-(

    Hugs to you. 

    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    Report Reply
  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    yup. It will pick up again, but yup it creeps by.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie Third Birthday tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers
    Photobucket
    Report Reply
  • agranagran member
    I feel like it's going quickly but that's because each day is a step further away from my baby girl and I just want to go back. 


    Married October 28, 2006, TTC since March 2009 IUI #1-8 w/ clomid = BFN
    IVF # 1 May, 2011 = BFP!!! Stillbirth at 26 weeks (placental failure/severe IUGR)
    FET #1 February, 2012-- BFP! Beta #1=84 Beta #2= 207 Beta #3= 3,526 Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    Our Rainbow Baby is on the Way!
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Report Reply
  • ruthymusneyruthymusney member

    imagelovemymaddy:
    I was just writing about this the other day. Sometimes it does seem to go soooo slow because it feels like each day just crawls by. However I can still remember everything that happened so vividly that it seems like yesterday you know? And still in other ways it feels like none of this every happened and that we should wake up any day now and Timmy will be here safe and healthy and happy.  :(  

    This is me I guess.  I can re-play everything in my head so perfectly and wish I could go back to 2 weeks ago today.  I felt her move for the last time.  Now that I know what happened, I know the exact last time I felt her move.  If I could go back 3 sundays I would have gone in when I felt decreased movement.  I feel like such a bad parent.

    <a href="http://s552.photobucket.com/albums/jj348/RuthyMunsey/?action=view
    Report Reply
  • figgs0831figgs0831 member
    Mine is just the opposite.  I can remeber every detail like it was yesterday, but almost 4 months have passed already.  I really don't know where the time went.

     Our baby boy,Logan, was born still at 19w3d on 7/1/2011
    Our 2nd baby boy, Mason, was born still at 20w3d on 1/31/2012

     After a much needed sanity break... we are praying for our rainbows

    ((BFP 7/29/13))  ((EDD 4/12/14))  It's BOY/GIRL twins!!!

    Report Reply
  • sandykinssandykins member
    OMG yes. I feel like life is in slow motion.
    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    Report Reply
  • starrkitten89starrkitten89
    I felt like time went crazy slow for the first couple weeks.Now I feel like it's moving faster than before.It's crazy.

    Lilypie - (yNYF)

    Lilypie - (bSes)

    T1 diabetes diagnosed 11/95 due to severe pancreatic injury
    BFP 1 1/22/10 EDD 9/30/10 Adria b. 9/11/10 d.8/9/11, Transposition of the Great Arteries,
    Pleural effusion, Kidney Failure
    BFP 2 4/26/12 EDD 1/3/13 M/C 5/13/12
    BFP 3 10/3/12 EDD 6/17/13 Twins! Preston and Juliet b. 5/22/13

     

     

     

     

     

    Report Reply
  • pb127pb127 member
    It did creep by at the time for me and now I look back and I can't believe it's been 8 months.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    ? to Loss+M/PL+TTCAL+PgAL+PAL

    PgAL/PAL welcome
    Report Reply
  • CaroleeCarolee member
    I felt like that at times, especially like time was flying by around me while my world stood still.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"