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BeccaMarieBeccaMarie member
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My son Carter Michael was stillborn early Tuesday morning. The cause was complete placental abruption. I felt him moving just a couple hours before the nurses couldn't find a heartbeat. I am not sure what else to say... I just feel really lost.

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  • ruthymusneyruthymusney member

    Becca, I am so sorry for your loss.  I've only been a part of this board for a week and a half, but the women on here are amazing.  Just vent.  ((big big hugs)) PM me if you need someone to talk to. 

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  • roxyttandmeroxyttandme member

    I am so sorry, hun. There is nothing like the pain of the loss of a child. I agree with PP, the women on this board are amazing. We are here for all your vents, tears, milestones. We all understand what you are going through and what you will be going through.

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  • hewinkedhewinked
    I am so sorry for your loss.  So many hugs to you.  I hope you find some comfort and support here.  We're all here when you need us and have all been through/going through the pain. 
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  • agranagran member
    I'm sorry you have to be here... sorry any of us have to be here.  I've found it helpful to talk to women who know what this feels like I hope you find comfort here too. 


    Married October 28, 2006, TTC since March 2009 IUI #1-8 w/ clomid = BFN
    IVF # 1 May, 2011 = BFP!!! Stillbirth at 26 weeks (placental failure/severe IUGR)
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  • LoveOfMikesLifeLoveOfMikesLife member
    Im really sorry! ((hugs)) It really sucks to be here and I'm sorry for your loss. We are all here for you
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  • mdluv21mdluv21
    I am so sorry for your loss.  huge ((hugs))
    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
    I am so, so sorry for your loss. We are here for you. It is the worst feeling to be on this board but I must say it helps.
    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • lovemymaddylovemymaddy
    Hi there. I"m so sorry for your loss.  :(  We just lost our little boy a month ago today to a placental abruption. ((hugs)) Page me or PM me if you'd like to talk. We're all here for you.
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  • AmyG2bAmyG2b member
    I'm glad you came to this board, but I'm also so sorry, because I know what that means. Hopefully you are able to find comfort here, it's a great place to share and get support.
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  • drvst8drvst8 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. This is a good place to vent though because we all understand what your going through. Please don't be afraid to talk and share your feelings with us.
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  • starrkitten89starrkitten89
    I'm so very sorry for your loss.Welcome to the board and I hope you find a great support network here!((hugs))

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    BFP 1 1/22/10 EDD 9/30/10 Adria b. 9/11/10 d.8/9/11, Transposition of the Great Arteries,
    Pleural effusion, Kidney Failure
    BFP 2 4/26/12 EDD 1/3/13 M/C 5/13/12
    BFP 3 10/3/12 EDD 6/17/13 Twins! Preston and Juliet b. 5/22/13

     

     

     

     

     

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  • Auki13Auki13 member
    I am so sorry for you loss.  At this point it is all so raw and new and I hope you can find just a tiny bit of comfort here on this board.  Please feel free to vent as much as you like on here and just be gentle with yourself these next few weeks.  Don't push yourself and just let yourself go through the process that you need to go through. We will be here for you every step of the way.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.  HUGS
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet boy Carter.  Welcome to the board.  I hope you find support and comfort here.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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  • pb127pb127 member

    I'm so sorry for the passing of your son Carter. Feel free to post however and whatever your feel like posting, we're here for you. Be gentle with yourself, the first several weeks are very tender. I hope you'll find some support and comfort here, welcome (((hugs)))

     

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    I'm so sorry for your loss. (((hugs)))

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    Becca, I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • mrssopranomrssoprano member
    I am so sorry you lost your son Carter. I'm glad this board was recommended to you, though, and I hope you find a good support system here.
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