I can't find the "perfect" house. We have been looking for about 3 months, and something is wrong with every house we check out. I want a good location, new(er) home, 4 bedroom that doesn't exceed $220,000. That's all of my requirements, yet I can't find it! I've even looked in cities 30 miles from me! AHHHH! Stressful!
So, how did you do it? Buy a house that was just okay, and settle or did you actually love it??
Re: House hunting sucks!
I agree. What I mean by settling is amount of bedrooms, floor plan, backyard space, etc...
I do look at cosmetic, as I believe everyone does, but it's not a dealbreaker. If it's alot that I don't like or want to change, I don't want the house, but if it's just a few things as in countertops, walls (paper or paint), or carpet, etc, I would still take it into consideration.
With us, we knew we couldn't buy a huge/fancy house. We got all of those fantasies out of our head quick. We got pre-qualified, saw what we could afford (which gets you a decent house in this town, you can find some cute houses for that amount... but again not the "Ooooh and ahhh" types).
We close on the 27th of this month. We found a cute 3 bdrm 1.5 bath home in a good neighborhood and one where LO will have playmates. It also has a nice patio and good backyard.
Have you done research online (like remax.com.. that's where we went, it gives the houses in your price range and includes pics and info on the houses)? That's how we started. We then found a realtor through my hubby's co-worker who knows what she's doing. She didn't bother showing us the "clunker" houses or the ones in bad neighborhoods, those are a waste of time.
We narrowed things down by school districts, what we could afford and the style of home we like. It didn't take us but maybe a couple times house hunting.
It helps that hubby and I have similiar taste. We loved that house from the moment we saw it on Remax. And when we walked inside, it just felt like HOME. It's kinda like trying on wedding dresses. When you put *the* dress on, you start to cry and picture yourself walking down the isle in it. That how walking into this house felt like, I did actually tear up (but I hid that from Hubby and realtor lol) and I could just picture us living there.