Since we started TTC I can't believe how many people have asked me, " So when are you going to have a baby?" I guess it happened before TTC, but didn't bother me because I would just say "soon hopefully", or "hopefully not too long from now". Now that we are trying and it isn't working as quickly as we would like, it drives me nuts! I know the people who ask are genuinely excited for us to start a family, but people need to think before they speak.
It also drives me crazy when you make the mistake of saying, "I don't feel well" or "I'm nauseous" I feel like I immediately get, "hmmm, are you pregnant?"
Re: What do people say that drives you insane while TTC?
agreed.. it drives me nuts too.
last week i had an upset stomach on our way to a wedding 3 hours from our house. we stopped 4 times for my poor stomach, when we got to the wedding i didnt feel like drinking because i knew i had another 3 hour car ride ahead of me.. of course my friend asked me 5 times if i was pregnant.. I kept denying it and she kept telling me she didnt believe me. To make her shut up i took a drink from my husbands and then she didnt ask the rest of the night. Someone had to drive home and obviously it wasnt my husband..
The next day I was telling the story to a different friend and then she questioned me...
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Nov. 2012-IUI #1-Femara 2.5 mg, Ovidrel=BFN
Jan. 2013-IUI #2-Femara 2.5 mg, Ovidrel, 1 follie=BFN
Feb. 2013-IUI #3-Clomid 50 mg on CD5 only, 2 follies=BFN
IVF#1 (4/13)-19 retrieved, 18 mature, 16 fertilized w/ ICSI=lucky #7 frosties
ET cancelled due to OHSS
FET #1 June 2013/transferred 2=Chemical
FET #2 August 2013/transferred 2=Chemical
FET #3 October 2013=BFN
IVF#2 (2/14)-17 retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fertilized w/ ICSI, 3 blasts, PGS= all 3 abnormal
IVF#3 (5/14)-13 retrieved, 11 mature, 9 fertilized w/ ICSI, 2 blasts, PGS=both abnormal
IVF#4 (8/14)-5-day transfer of 2 embies=BFP! (8/28/14) beta 99
U/S #1 (6 wks, 2 days)=1 bean, U/S#2 (8 weeks, 2 days)=180 HB, U/S #3 (10 weeks)=measuring 10 wks, 2 days
For me this is the most annoying thing someone can say related to TTC because it is usually the people who are dying to "out" someone. They are the nosy, gossipy type and looking to catch someone in a lie. Do they think I would actually admit it if I was??
I've been getting a lot of:
"Aren't you pregnant yet?"
and
"When are you going to get pregnant?" - From people who we're TTC
No. I'm not pregnant yet. Thanks for reminding me. Oh, and ya know...Since I have complete control over when I get pregnant, I thought I'd just allow myself to sit in agony for 7 months to build suspense.
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What bothers me the most is the "If it is supposed to happen, it will happen."
Gee, thanks.
Ever since my Dh told my dad that we had decided to have another LO, every email I get from him begins like this:
Hey! How are you? Are you pregnant yet?
So irritating. Seriously.
The only Easter Bunny I can get behind.
Maxwell Joseph 4/09 Lucy Violet 10/12
OMG! So I thought that it was bad now, this is what I have to look forward to?
I saw an old friend about a month ago in a restaurant. My husband and I went up to him and said hello. He was holding his adorable baby. We congratulated him and he looked at my stomach and said "Do you guys have something in the works?" haahha it was like a double whammie. Not only did he ask about kids he implied I was pregnant, thus basically calling me fat! Fabulous!
"Well, you need to open your heart up to adoption because it sounds like that's where you're headed". It was like a giant slap in the face.
I thought it would get better after I had DS but the same aunt pesters me all the time about having another.
Cooper+Evie=Soulmates

How rude! I am so sorry! Well obviously you proved her wrong. Those are some beautiful babies!
The only Easter Bunny I can get behind.
Maxwell Joseph 4/09 Lucy Violet 10/12
For some reason it really bothers me when people tell me to just relax and stop stressing, it will happen.
Married 8-02-08
After 3 years TTC with PCOS and two losses Olivia Nikelle was born 4-08-13
TTC #2 Since August 2014
Cooper+Evie=Soulmates

I can't stand it when people say "just relax, you will be pregnant soon",
Also, last week at work I wasn't feeling well and left a few hours early. All day until I left everyone kept asking me if I was pregnant. Yes because a woman in her 30's doesn't get the flu is what I wanted to tell everyone that had the nerve to ask.
Where are people's manners...
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BFP - 2/27/14 EDD - 12/3/14 MC at 11 weeks
BFP - 9/28/14 EDD - 6/8/15
Coworkers have been getting visits from their babies or grandbabies at work, and my boss will say to me "You know, you could get one of those too." Like I could put it on my Christmas list and Santa will bring me a pregnancy.
And don't forget the ever popular "once you stop trying it'll happen."
Argh.
Well everyone already said it but...
I seriously want to slap someone when they say stop trying so hard and it will happen. Im like actually, you have to "try" as in have sex to get pregnant. Its not like all of a sudden I can just start having sex all the time and pretend im not trying anymore.
and everytime I see my in laws and DH extended family like aunts and cousins, their like "no baby yet" and I just say nope.
Of course my two very best friends just had their first babies in aug and sept, and everyones like oh your next, are you going to join them blah blah blah.
oh and dont forget...your still so young (24) you have so much time. Im like yea Im sure your right, but this is what I want..NOW! haha