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I am so grateful for our pedi

and that he respects our choices and reasoning.

DS has been having fevers (104+) every 2-3 weeks for 3-5 days.  He has pretty strong reactions to vaccines.  The 2nd flu shot brought upon our first ER visit with a 104.2 fever and they just seem to be getting stronger. 

We had his 15 mo visit on Friday (we were a little delayed with vax because at 2 months we were struggling with FTT and then we were waiting for his genetic results in case it was metabolic/mito issues) and it was time for the flu shot, MMR, and chickenpox.  I told him we wouldn't be doing any that day and he didn't say a thing.  I did explain my reasoning, we're going to a wedding that is 7 hours away this coming weekend and my parents are staying with DS.  Knowing that he will almost 100% definitely have a reaction to the vaccines I didn't feel comfortable leaving my parents with that responsiblity.  So we'll make a nurse visit and go in next week to have them.  It's just nice that he respects our choices and doesn't launch into a vaccine debate (of which I'm pro vax, but I also know my child and that he's already having issues I want to take it slow)

After some of our specialists (our neuro who told us he screamed all night because we didn't make him cry) who talked down to us so badly it's a breath of fresh air to feel respected.

To my boys:  I will love you for you Not for what you have done or what you will become I will love you for you I will give you the love The love that you never knew

Re: I am so grateful for our pedi

  • I swear some doctors forget what respect is. I'm glad you have a pedi that listens to you and respects the decisions you are making.
  • So glad your pedi listens and is reasonable.
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  • Yes Kudos to you for holding it together too!! We go through the same thing every time L needs a vax or med that he hasn't been tried on or reacts to. We're still waithing on the metabolics testing here, L reacted badly to the MMR the last time he got it. Scary stuff!!
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