Late Term and Child Loss

I feel like I only fit in on two boards now.

This one, and BOTB.  I feel like I should be a part of Parenting after a Loss, but, all most of the moms became parents AFTER their loss.  They are so so sweet, I can't wait to be there.  This shouldn't have to happen to anyone.  I love all you ladies. ((hugs))

Re: I feel like I only fit in on two boards now.

  • If it makes you feel any better, I only fit on this one and infertility veterans. :(

    I'm very thankful for this board though.

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
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    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
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    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
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  • I felt the same way for awhile. I felt like I only fit in mc/loss board and BOTB.

    Have you noticed if you parent differently now?

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  • imagemagdalina.h:

    I felt the same way for awhile. I felt like I only fit in mc/loss board and BOTB.

    Have you noticed if you parent differently now?

    Yes, so much different.  I wrote about it a few days ago. I feel like a better mom, and I feel like Caylee gets so much more out of me.  Kyndal healed my parenting skills, KWIM?

  • I feel like I parent differently.  I am so attached more to my LO.  He has been such a God send for me, and has gotten me up out of bed every morning.  Though I find myself VERY protective and wanting to never let him go!  I am afraid of losing him although I know I will survive no matter what.  Life has changed my view of everything since losing Emmy.
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  • imagemdluv21:

    If it makes you feel any better, I only fit on this one and infertility veterans. :(

    I'm very thankful for this board though.

    Unfortunately, I know exactly what you mean.  That is not a great combo.  Hugs.

    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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  • I feel the same way. I'm on here and on TTCAL. But I feel like I fit a lot more on this board tho. 
    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • imageillinigal:
    imagemdluv21:

    If it makes you feel any better, I only fit on this one and infertility veterans. :(

    I'm very thankful for this board though.

    Unfortunately, I know exactly what you mean.  That is not a great combo.  Hugs.

    Right there with you, girls. (hugs)
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  • imageKrysiaHamaty:
    I feel the same way. I'm on here and on TTCAL. But I feel like I fit a lot more on this board tho. 

    Me too, even after my miscarriage.

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