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Posts like Cookie Monster's

ShanJosh777ShanJosh777 member
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make me so scared for DS's future.

Seriously, it makes me sick that he could be subjected to a SM some day who thinks less of him than her other kids or treats him differently, takes secret vacations without him and never tells him, makes him sit out of family photos so that he isn't in the ones she is giving to her side of the family, etc.

I just hope that as much of a DB as his dad can be toward me, he at least would never exclude his own son the way that dad seems to be fine with. Ick. 

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  • emma7875emma7875

    I read her post on BF and I just wanted to let you know she is a rare gem.  At least on our board all of the SM's like myself, try to love and treat the SC as their own.  Hopefully you wont get stuck with a nut joblike her, for your childs SM one day. 

    I can't even sympathize with her at all.  I would never even consider having my SS sit out of a family photo, or vacation let alone some stupid brunch.  He is my family and is included in everything!  I am embarassed for her.

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  • peeps61308peeps61308 member
    ITA. As big of a douche as DB can be, I sincerley hope he ends up with a nice woman that treats DD well (and encourages him to be a part of her life.)
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  • HeavenlyExcitedBrideHeavenlyExcitedBride

    As one who came from a blended family and being neglected of my own feelings by step parent, I know this can cause serious emotionial damage.  I pray that boy has wonderful mentors in his life to help lead him.

     

    It is such a shame to here that some people think not all childrend are loveable because they ALL indeed are.

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  • Sweet face 82Sweet face 82
    There are no words...at least none I can write here...blech
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  • WhatDidIDoWrongWhatDidIDoWrong
    Her post made me so mad because my son's future SM doesn't acknowledge that he is apart of her's and his father's lives. I also think his father is an a$$ for not including him but he is selfish and why we aren't together. I hope she gets better if she has her own child but I doubt it.
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  • JellymanKellyJellymanKelly
    imageShanJosh777:

    make me so scared for DS's future.

    Seriously, it makes me sick that he could be subjected to a SM some day who thinks less of him than her other kids or treats him differently, takes secret vacations without him and never tells him, makes him sit out of family photos so that he isn't in the ones she is giving to her side of the family, etc.

    I just hope that as much of a DB as his dad can be toward me, he at least would never exclude his own son the way that dad seems to be fine with. Ick. 

     

    I just posted something similar in the post below (maybe on your response). This terrifies me and I will be damned if I ever let this happen to my boys. 

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  • jennf8812jennf8812

    I am a lurker to this board.  I am not a single parent, I am a step-mother.  I read this board because it give me perspective of what single mother's are going through, a perspective that I do not have in my life.

    I wanted to let you know that people like her are scary but not all step-mother's are like that.  I care very, very much for my SS and consider him to be part of my family.  I would never exclude him from anything that we do.  I am currently expecting my first child and me and my husband have talked a lot about how a new baby is going to affect my stepson.  We have also included my stepson in all aspects of the baby and he is very excited to have a little sister coming.

    It has not been easy.  My stepson's mother has a lot of unresolved issues with my husband and her relationship.  But in no way will that every effect the relationship between me and my stepson.  I hope that all the mother's on here will never have to deal with a step-mother like Cookie Monster's.  Good luck everyone and I will now be going back to lurking. 

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  • AngiesmommyAngiesmommy
    CookieDouche is one reason why I'm glad DD's BD has zero contact and is not involved in her life.                          My heart breaks for that kid (if cookie is real).
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  • supermom2008supermom2008
    Did anyone else think her "organization" sounded like a cult?? It totally creeped me out when I was reading it. She never did respond to my inquiry about this group.. Just read the comment about the "family" photos and I am livid!
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  • nire99nire99 member

    I'm calling MUD on that post.

    Then agian, I couldn't read through her OP because of all the talk about her "organization." WTF?

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  • peeps61308peeps61308 member
    imagejennf8812:

    I am a lurker to this board.  I am not a single parent, I am a step-mother.  I read this board because it give me perspective of what single mother's are going through, a perspective that I do not have in my life.

    I wanted to let you know that people like her are scary but not all step-mother's are like that.  I care very, very much for my SS and consider him to be part of my family.  I would never exclude him from anything that we do.  I am currently expecting my first child and me and my husband have talked a lot about how a new baby is going to affect my stepson.  We have also included my stepson in all aspects of the baby and he is very excited to have a little sister coming.

    It has not been easy.  My stepson's mother has a lot of unresolved issues with my husband and her relationship.  But in no way will that every effect the relationship between me and my stepson.  I hope that all the mother's on here will never have to deal with a step-mother like Cookie Monster's.  Good luck everyone and I will now be going back to lurking. 

    I don't understant people like this. For whatever reason, you and your EX-H were not compatable. Move on. The fact that you didn't work well as a married couple doesn't automatically mean that they are not a good father. I feel so bad when people use their kids as a pawn just to get to the person that "wronged" them. Trust me, I have ZERO use for my EX-H, but I hope one day he will get his head out of his azz and be a good father instead of just a sperm doner. 

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