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new here and so surpirsed!!
blkdiamondnnyc
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hello ladies I'm new to the group. I came here looking for a group of women to chat with about my ttc journey but what I found was quite the opposite. I created a thread earlier asking for comments, support and/or advice. What I found was quite the opposite I was ridiculed, judged on punctuation and grammer and out of the 45 comments the thread received may-be 3 were from women who were just commenting and being supportive. One of the women went so far as to create a post with my name in the title just so her and her friends could verbally attack me some more. After researching the site I found out that this is somehow the norm here and espeically amongst a group of women who go from post to post creating DRAMA! Well my life is way to full for that nonsense I did'nt come here for that and I'm not about to tolerate it expecially from a bunch of females who I don't know and could care less about. my post is to say keep in mind what you came here for and don't let these cliques distract you. Alot of women who saw the nonsense on the post inboxed me that these women make a habit of harrassing other women from thread to thread and this hasd been going on for quite some time. My response I reported them to the moderators as well as to "the bump" because i don't allow anyone to harrass me in real life or on the net.
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Re: new here and so surpirsed!!
Easy tiger...you're the one who called everyone names.
The advice to LURK on boards is given for good reason. Take some time to see how a board functions and what type of personality it has. Each board is different. The TTGP board, and The BUMP, isn't for everyone.
Ah yes...the 'phantom support' claim. Yes, I have no doubt some women emailed you thier support...since they were no doubt equally ridiculous as you are.
I said it in the thread you DDed (which is why you got the 'call out') and I'll say it again, I really believe a site like babygaga.com is more suited to your needs. Sincerely.
Just don't post there if you don't like the people on the board.
TX: IUI #1-4 = BFN + 1 c/p
IUI #5: Clomid 100mg + Bravelle + Trigger + B2B IUIs + 800mg Progesterone = BFP!
Beta #1 (14dpiui): 460 Beta #2 (16dpiui): 998 Beta #3 (23dpiui): 21,832 Beta #4 (29dpiui): 129,771
i don't need to take time to do anything why don't you take the time to leave me alone exit the thread. At the end of the day if you don't have anything productive to say to me or about what I've posted say NOTHING. Move on to a post that is more for you i don't have to be harrassed wtf are you people stalking me now UNREAL!!!
IUI #1=BFN
IUI #2=BFP! Beta#1:87 Beta #2:1050
~It's a GIRL!~
"Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength."
It's grammar, for one. And by saying "I could care less" you are implying that you do, in fact, care. The actual phrase you're looking for is "I couldn't care less."
I don't know what your post was about, but this is not a "support group" and most of those women you're bashing don't go out of their way to be snarky without reason.
You should lurk, and if you're unwilling to get to know the atmosphere you're joining then don't expect other people to be all puppies and rainbows.
Oh and finally, reporting women who haven't violated any rules would be like reporting you for your inability to use paragraphs... a waste of time
DD1- 12/26/05 DD2- 4/12/12
Actually, I'm a mod on the board you are bashing and the mod you PM'd, so I'm dealing with the issue. You were not bullied/harassed/any other buzz word you want to use.