TTC After a Loss

Ready to start TTC...

I had my miscarriage in August and my hubby and I feel like we are ready to start TTC again... I was just recently told to wait 2 cycles before trying again so here we go I guess....I have so many emotions on trying again... excitement, anxiousness, fear... I am sure that it is all normal but I'm freaking out a little bit!
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Re: Ready to start TTC...

  • I am right there with you! My m/c was the last weekend of August...first AF Sept 29. I was also told to wait three months or two cycles. I am hoping AF comes at a normal time....before pg I was 29 - 32 days so I am hoping for my visit anytime around Halloween.

    All those emotions are completely normal...I've had some days where I am ready now and others where I want to wait months. But time really does help to heal Smile So does this forum....I've met so many strong women and it is comforting to know we are all going through a very similar, although sad, experience.

    Best of luck to you, and rest assured...you can freak out here any time you want Big Smile

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  • Good luck!  Hope it all goes well for you.
  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board and hopefully your stay here won't be too long.
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  • welcome to the board! I am right there with you with all of the emotions!  Tongue Tied
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  • Best of luck on this part of your journey!


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  • Sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board, I hope your stay is short and sweet. You are not alone with those feelings, I think it just comes with the territory of TTCAL. Good luck! 
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    welcome to the board! I am right there with you with all of the emotions!  Tongue Tied

    My poor hubby this week... the emotions from the m/c are still there and then getting AF and deciding to try again... yep, I've been all over the map! He's a trooper :)

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  • I would also suggest charting, in case you don't already.

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  • imageGraceInCA:
    I would also suggest charting, in case you don't already.

    I didn't when I first got pregnant... But now that this has happened and my body has been through so much I am getting educated on charting and am starting to!

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  • Sorry for your loss! Good luck with TTC!! Fx for you! This board has some amazing, strong women on it and it is such a comfort to be able to come here to talk with people who know what we've been through!
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope your stay here is short and sweet. Welcome.
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  • Welcome to the board. I am so sorry for your loss. Good luck to you!
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