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JSanFran

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Hey! I couldn't find any update post or anything, but I think it was you.  How were things going with DH?  I think it was that he was kind of controlling the money or something  you needed a gym membership?  Did you work things out, or have a conversation with him about it.  Was just wondering when I saw your siggy in another post.

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  • JSanFranJSanFran member

    Hey!! thank you so much for asking!!  Long story short yes we had a great conversation.  It took a few days for him to chill out though and he avoided me!  My mom was in town so that made it a little worse.  We both talked out our issues and really ironed out what was bothering us the most.  I think we're both in a good spot now and armed with better coping (sp?) mechanisms for next time we have an arguement...cause lord knows there will be a next time

    I've seen my doc now and we have a plan.  I'm taking LO to a lady's home on Fridays so I can have several hours to myself.  I'm joining a mom's club and going to have my sister come help out a day or so a week.  Basically it comes down to me needing some "me" time and to work out. I was a big runner before LO.

    He knows he's selfish and I made sure to express my concerns with feeling very controlled.  Its much better that the issues are all out there now. Not to mention it was his end of quarter for his job, LO isn't sleeping the greatest now, and ...my mom was coming to visit :o)

    Thank you so much for asking! 

     

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    Oh, I'm so glad you got things worked out and were able to find a way to get some "me" time!  I know how hard things can get when DH is having a rough time at work.  DH hates his job (TRU/BRU manager) and he comes home grumpy and in a foul mood every day.  I almost dread him coming home some days!

    I think that was very brave of you and took a lot to go talk to the Dr about that.  I'm happy things are worked out for you!

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    thank you so much for asking!!!
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