Hello all, I'm pretty new to The Bump, as this is my first pregnancy. I decided to go with a midwife from Professionals for Women's Health for prenatal care and delivery. I have my first prenatal appointment in about 2 weeks at 7 weeks and 5 days. Has anyone else gone to this office for their first prenatal appt? If so, can you tell me what to expect? The receptionist told me that I would see a nurse (not a midwife) and not to expect my ultrasound until the next appointment, but other than that I'm clueless. TIA!
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I started going to PWH about 9 years ago. They were great for yearly exams and in between visits. When I got pregnant last year, I changed my mind about them. I felt like I was on an assembly line. No time to ask questions or I was told just to wait until we got further into my pregnancy, my bad experiences were related to two different doctors, not a midwife. I left right before the end of my first trimester. My advice would be, if you start to get uncomfortable and don't like the doctor go to a different one. There is no reason you can't change your mind. I know the doctors don't promise you who will do your delivery, but I don't know about the midwives.
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I just had my first appt. with a mid-wife there and thought they were great. She answered all my questions and I am more than thrilled with my choice to see them.
I had about 20 minutes in an office talking and asking questions and got more than the info I as hoping for, and then I had a quick few tests. I was at 12 weeks when I first saw them as I was switching from another clinic.
Hope this helps.
I will never go back to that practice again! I went there with my first pregnancy. My first appointment was just me meeting with a midwife in an office and getting info, prescriptions, etc. I also had a pap test done that day because it was getting close to that time. They had me come back like 2 days later and see a doctor who did an ultrasound---annoying to have to come back!! The doctor that I saw with my 2nd pregnancy did all of the above (meeting, pap, and u/s) all in the first visit. The practice is set up so that you see whoever is in the office that day. They rotate between 3 different practices, so whoever is in that day is who you see. If there is someone who you really want to see, you might have to drive to another practice to see them. I was measuring small around 32 weeks and the midwife had me all worried that something was wrong, and then I had to schedule another appointment to get an ultrasound 3 days later! You don't scare a pregnant person saying measuring small, talk about low fluid levels and growth restriction, and then send them home... I had the same issue with measuring small last time, and my new OB did an ultrasound right away that day, and when she didn't like what she saw, she sent me straight to L&D to be evaluated by a high-risk doctor, no waiting around like before.
Towards the last few weeks of my pregnancy, I got conflicting plans of care from doctors vs. midwives. At 39 weeks, I saw a doctor who said we would 'discuss our options next week if I was still pregnant'. Met with a midwife the next week when I was still pregnant and she acted like she didn't know what the doctor was talking about and said 'Our standard of care is that we don't discuss options until 41 weeks'. That day, I had a heated argument with this midwife and by the time I left, I told her that I would let them deliver this baby but would never be back again! Luckily I went into labor later that night and had a wonderful delivery experience with another midwife, but still kept my word that I will never go back there!
You did have a very poor experience.
That was not my case. I was offered the NT scan and had it done at Riverside.
Wow, you did have a horrible experience! So sorry!
I had my first appointment today & I must say it was very disappointing. It was with the nurse & she gave me a little info and I asked a few questions, but I felt rushed & a little hurt by her reaction to something I said. Also, I was told that she would talk to me about nutrition & exercise but instead, she just gave me handouts. Maybe that's normal, I'm not sure.
The worst part, though, was when she talked about delivery. She said that any of the midwives would be at the delivery room, depending on who is on call. I didn't like that, but didn't think it was 100% horrible. Then she said that it may not be a midwife at all, it may be an OB, depending on who is on call. When I explained to her my concerns about being able to follow my birth plan, she said that even if I had a midwife at delivery, she may not be with me the whole time, because she could have another patient giving birth in another hospital, so I should get a doula who can remind me of what I want and advocate for me. I explained that I was trying to avoid a doula because my insurance does not cover that & she simply said "no ones does". I'm not sure if this info is normal in other practices with midwives, but I was really disturbed by it and I may end up switching soon. I just hate the idea that I can't be guaranteed ANY midwife at delivery.
I had to deliver at OSU and the midwife on call was at RIverside at the time. I had to wait to push until she was able to make it there. I think its pretty standard that regardless of the practice you go to, the doctor/midwife does not make an appearance until its time to push. That was my expeirence anyways.
No group practice is going to promise you that a certain person will deliver you. If you want that, you need to go to a Dr in a practice by himself. They do exsist.
I called the number when my H and I deemed it was ready. I got to the hospital and I was a 4.5 dialated. I had a wonderful experience at Riverside. My midwife from PWH got there and checked after I had an epidural and had taken a nap as I was not at a 10 (my water hadn't broken yet even). After my epidural and nap, I woke up, she was there, checked me, told my husband to go get something to eat and when you come back we'll have a baby. He got back, I pushed 3 times and our son was born. I loved having a midwife! She helped stretch my periumn (sp) so I didn't tore. She was kind.
You need to decide what you really want. We are TTC #2 now and there is no way in the world I'd go any where but PWH. Should you decide to stay, I will tell you that I knew I only wanted a midwife. MWs there do ALL of the nonivassive births. Since I knew I was having an easy pregnancy, I got to know ALL of them at the various appointments - there are so many towards the end.
Also, please remember that there will be people with bad experience no matter where you go or what you do in life. You have to be comfortable with your decision.
Best of luck to you!
I adore Liz Christy, love her she delivered my first daughter. I am not crazy about all others there. I received conflicting information from them a couple of times and it really turned me off. I am still currently going there because I have not had time to switch doctors yet. for example, they had me do the extensive glucose test saying i didn't pass the first one, then a week or so later i got an automated vm that my results with my initial glucose test were great. no one could explain that. Also i had an issue with an abnormal pap that was bad. the midwife came and said its not bad on the scale you are here. i said that is not what i was told, she left to double check the charts - she had read someone elses chart.
so just careless ness is what im saying and it just turned me off