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TTC After a Loss
AGAPIBABY, you dropped your stupid.
Yeah. Please don't show your face around here anymore. You are a terrible human being. You fail at all levels of compassion and decency. You suck. GTFO 10-10-2011 at 11:54 PM
AGAPIBABY
Joined on 11-14-200839 Posts390 Points
Your letter should be directed to the Dr. that recommended you terminate your baby's life. This is such a sad post to read on multiple levels. God is the Creator of Life...He gives it and only HE can take it away. We do not have the right to play God, EVER. As a Mother to a 3 month old baby after a devastating loss, I can assure you that it is an honor and a blessing to be a vessel that brings Life into the World. As women, We are that...vessels... and we do not have the right to decide whether or not our children live or die. That is not the job of a parent. A baby is a Miracle and a gift, so sorry you destroyed yours. I will pray for the soul of your baby and for yours.
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briast20Joined on 03-17-2002105 Posts2,259 Points
AGAPIBABY:Your letter should be directed to the Dr. that recommended you terminate your baby's life. This is such a sad post to read on multiple levels. God is the Creator of Life...He gives it and only HE can take it away. We do not have the right to play God, EVER. As a Mother to a 3 month old baby after a devastating loss, I can assure you that it is an honor and a blessing to be a vessel that brings Life into the World. As women, We are that...vessels... and we do not have the right to decide whether or not our children live or die. That is not the job of a parent. A baby is a Miracle and a gift, so sorry you destroyed yours. I will pray for the soul of your baby and for yours.Are you fvcking kidding me? I don't care what your religious beliefs are, this is uncalled for.Becky, I'm sorry that you went through such a devastating loss. I think your letter is very eloquent and well stated.
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CabbageCab...Joined on 09-20-2009Chicagoland696 Posts10,424 Points
AGAPIBABY:Your letter should be directed to the Dr. that recommended you terminate your baby's life. This is such a sad post to read on multiple levels. God is the Creator of Life...He gives it and only HE can take it away. We do not have the right to play God, EVER. As a Mother to a 3 month old baby after a devastating loss, I can assure you that it is an honor and a blessing to be a vessel that brings Life into the World. As women, We are that...vessels... and we do not have the right to decide whether or not our children live or die. That is not the job of a parent. A baby is a Miracle and a gift, so sorry you destroyed yours. I will pray for the soul of your baby and for yours. ^^You can send your note to your self-righteous butt. No one needs this type of judgement, especially not a mother who went through something so traumatic.Why don't you go into a quiet room and flip through the Bible to find the passages that implore you to pass judgement on strangers, hurt the suffering and be raging cvnt. Then (and only then) come back and share. Okay? Becky, I am so so sorry for everything you went through. I hope your note reaches that Dr. and shows her that every word she chooses counts. 
Miscarriage 7/11. Sucks. 
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LoveOfMike...Joined on 09-08-20091,430 Posts31,599 Points
AGAPIBABY:Your letter should be directed to the Dr. that recommended you terminate your baby's life. This is such a sad post to read on multiple levels. God is the Creator of Life...He gives it and only HE can take it away. We do not have the right to play God, EVER. As a Mother to a 3 month old baby after a devastating loss, I can assure you that it is an honor and a blessing to be a vessel that brings Life into the World. As women, We are that...vessels... and we do not have the right to decide whether or not our children live or die. That is not the job of a parent. A baby is a Miracle and a gift, so sorry you destroyed yours. I will pray for the soul of your baby and for yours.
You are an @ss!!!! This woman is grieving and did what she felt was best for her child! You do not get to tell her she did the wrong thing for her child and her family! This board is not a place to push religion on anyone!!!!! What the hell is wrong with you??? Oh and in your religion is it ok to judge people?
PAL/PGAL welcome
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wickedsuga...Joined on 03-25-2007Toronto, Canada4,469 Posts49,875 Points
AGAPIBABY:Your letter should be directed to the Dr. that recommended you terminate your baby's life. This is such a sad post to read on multiple levels. God is the Creator of Life...He gives it and only HE can take it away. We do not have the right to play God, EVER. As a Mother to a 3 month old baby after a devastating loss, I can assure you that it is an honor and a blessing to be a vessel that brings Life into the World. As women, We are that...vessels... and we do not have the right to decide whether or not our children live or die. That is not the job of a parent. A baby is a Miracle and a gift, so sorry you destroyed yours. I will pray for the soul of your baby and for yours.
WTF???? Are you effin serious ??? GTFO this board.... This has no place here !!OP you are very strong to write that letter to them.. ((Hugs))
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AGAPIBABYJoined on 11-14-200839 Posts390 PointsYour letter should be directed to the Dr. that recommended you terminate your baby's life. This is such a sad post to read on multiple levels. God is the Creator of Life...He gives it and only HE can take it away. We do not have the right to play God, EVER. As a Mother to a 3 month old baby after a devastating loss, I can assure you that it is an honor and a blessing to be a vessel that brings Life into the World. As women, We are that...vessels... and we do not have the right to decide whether or not our children live or die. That is not the job of a parent. A baby is a Miracle and a gift, so sorry you destroyed yours. I will pray for the soul of your baby and for yours.ReportBlock
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briast20Joined on 03-17-2002105 Posts2,259 Points AGAPIBABY:Your letter should be directed to the Dr. that recommended you terminate your baby's life. This is such a sad post to read on multiple levels. God is the Creator of Life...He gives it and only HE can take it away. We do not have the right to play God, EVER. As a Mother to a 3 month old baby after a devastating loss, I can assure you that it is an honor and a blessing to be a vessel that brings Life into the World. As women, We are that...vessels... and we do not have the right to decide whether or not our children live or die. That is not the job of a parent. A baby is a Miracle and a gift, so sorry you destroyed yours. I will pray for the soul of your baby and for yours.Are you fvcking kidding me? I don't care what your religious beliefs are, this is uncalled for.Becky, I'm sorry that you went through such a devastating loss. I think your letter is very eloquent and well stated. ReportBlockReplyQuoteContact10-11-2011 at 9:23 AM
CabbageCab...Joined on 09-20-2009Chicagoland696 Posts10,424 Points AGAPIBABY:Your letter should be directed to the Dr. that recommended you terminate your baby's life. This is such a sad post to read on multiple levels. God is the Creator of Life...He gives it and only HE can take it away. We do not have the right to play God, EVER. As a Mother to a 3 month old baby after a devastating loss, I can assure you that it is an honor and a blessing to be a vessel that brings Life into the World. As women, We are that...vessels... and we do not have the right to decide whether or not our children live or die. That is not the job of a parent. A baby is a Miracle and a gift, so sorry you destroyed yours. I will pray for the soul of your baby and for yours. ^^You can send your note to your self-righteous butt. No one needs this type of judgement, especially not a mother who went through something so traumatic.Why don't you go into a quiet room and flip through the Bible to find the passages that implore you to pass judgement on strangers, hurt the suffering and be raging cvnt. Then (and only then) come back and share. Okay? Becky, I am so so sorry for everything you went through. I hope your note reaches that Dr. and shows her that every word she chooses counts. 
Miscarriage 7/11. Sucks. ReportBlockReplyQuoteContact10-11-2011 at 9:27 AM
LoveOfMike...Joined on 09-08-20091,430 Posts31,599 Points AGAPIBABY:Your letter should be directed to the Dr. that recommended you terminate your baby's life. This is such a sad post to read on multiple levels. God is the Creator of Life...He gives it and only HE can take it away. We do not have the right to play God, EVER. As a Mother to a 3 month old baby after a devastating loss, I can assure you that it is an honor and a blessing to be a vessel that brings Life into the World. As women, We are that...vessels... and we do not have the right to decide whether or not our children live or die. That is not the job of a parent. A baby is a Miracle and a gift, so sorry you destroyed yours. I will pray for the soul of your baby and for yours.You are an @ss!!!! This woman is grieving and did what she felt was best for her child! You do not get to tell her she did the wrong thing for her child and her family! This board is not a place to push religion on anyone!!!!! What the hell is wrong with you??? Oh and in your religion is it ok to judge people?
PAL/PGAL welcome
ReportBlockReplyQuoteContact10-11-2011 at 9:28 AM
wickedsuga...Joined on 03-25-2007Toronto, Canada4,469 Posts49,875 Points AGAPIBABY:Your letter should be directed to the Dr. that recommended you terminate your baby's life. This is such a sad post to read on multiple levels. God is the Creator of Life...He gives it and only HE can take it away. We do not have the right to play God, EVER. As a Mother to a 3 month old baby after a devastating loss, I can assure you that it is an honor and a blessing to be a vessel that brings Life into the World. As women, We are that...vessels... and we do not have the right to decide whether or not our children live or die. That is not the job of a parent. A baby is a Miracle and a gift, so sorry you destroyed yours. I will pray for the soul of your baby and for yours.WTF???? Are you effin serious ??? GTFO this board.... This has no place here !!OP you are very strong to write that letter to them.. ((Hugs))
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Re: AGAPIBABY, you dropped your stupid.
Oh, ObviousAE burned you.
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Agapi, I read your "apology".
If I were you, I wouldn't let those judgmental thoughts into my prayers. I don't think God would be to happy with the pain you have caused today. I hope you have a good priest to talk through why being a Christian has made your heart so hard to peoples' pain, seems you do the opposite of what you so self-righteously preach.
**ticker warning***
ugh why are people so awful?
Becky, my heart hurts for you and the decisions you had to make. I am so sorry for you loss
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Becky, I'm so sorry that you were faced with a very difficult decision ((BIG SQUISHY HUGS)). Don't let this twatwaffle discourage you, hun.
Agapibaby, the only thing that I can say is that you fvcking digust me. I hope no one has to judge you in the future.
Because of the great "Snow"vember of 2015, my medicated cycle was cancelled. However, we were blessed with our little rainbow baby due on 8/14/15! Baby J had other plans and decided to make his grand ole entrance on 7/4/2015!
Surprise! Our little girl entered this world on 12/8/2016 after her eviction notice was long past due. Our little turkey baby turned into a snow baby!
Agapibaby, I cannot believe someone who considers themselves a christian would treat others that way. I'm sickened.
Becky, I am so sorry you had to go through this. My heart totally breaks for you. I think you are very brave and strong for making the decision that you did. ((huge hugs))
AGAPIBABY STAY THE HECK OUT OF OUR UTERUS!
You are the most judgmental, insensitive person I have ever seen online. You come to a TTC after a loss forum and say something so horrible and think it wouldn't offend anyone?! Seriously were you born yesterday darling?! I have been told I killed my baby, that I made the wrong decision, etc etc etc. Those people I have cussed out so bad that I made their great grandmothers turn over in their graves but you my dear tops the cake of them all. The ladies on this forum are emotional... why? We have all lost babies. All of our situations are different. Some of us had to make the decision to end the pregnancy and some of us had no choice at all.
Just a little info about me... My baby had no skull. I was just starting my 14th week, a newlywed of just a week, happy as can be, excited as all get out about having a baby. By my 15th week, I was at a clinic having to have a surgery to end my pregnancy screaming and crying the whole time. My life is forever changedb and I cry every single day and will for a very long time. Not a day goes by that I do not miss my son and want him here with me, but we made the decision to spare him the pain he would endure if he even survived labor. I allowed him to join God in Heaven and be happy and free of pain. Every ultrasound picture I have (which I will always cherish) he is holding his head like a person does when they are in intense pain in their head. We believed he was already suffering and in pain. Do you support allowing a baby to be in horrible pain for every second of their lives in the womb and out? I surely don't!! I couldn't be selfish and allow him to be in pain when I could stop it! Our decision was ours to make... not yours. Put yourself in our shoes, look in the mirror, and say what you just said to yourself. I'll love my baby boy forever and ever, and I will get to see him again.
In the future, stay off boards like these... they are no place for insensitive closed minded people like yourself.