April 2012 Moms

Due date and m/c

I don't know how I never realized it before....my due date is so close to when I had my first m/c. That was the farthest along and worst one I had. We nicknamed the baby and everything. I never had a thought something bad would happen. It makes it feel like it is meant to be, this baby. I still miss my little Caper (baby ones name) and it makes me sad. But somehow having a baby at that time feels like its gonna be ok now.
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Re: Due date and m/c

  • I think it's just God's way of connecting you with the one you lost and providing you with someone new to love:) Glad everything is going well!

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  • I'm so sorry you've had to deal with losing LOs. It's good that you've found a positive in the bad, though, and you've got that squirmy baby to be in your belly now.
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  • I like what the PP said.  I'm so happy this pregnancy is going well, you are happily a lemon like me. :) Go lemons!  Can't wait for us to progress and keep sharing our stories and experiences! 
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  • I think it's nice that now you'll have a positive experience associated with that time of year as a way to also celebrate the life of the baby you lost. 
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  • (((hugs)))  My EDD in April 2012 is one day behind my April 2011 EDD that I m/c last Sept.  Crazy how things happen, huh? 
    DS1 age 7, DD age 5 and DS2 born 4/3/12
  • I became pregnant with Cailin in April of 2010 and I am due April 2012...I think that's really cool!
    DD#1 11.7.07 - DD#2 11.2.10 (3rd Tri Loss)- DD#3 4.18.12
  • ::hugs::  My EDD before this pregnancy was 7/1/11 (my loss was in dec.). and I got pregnant right after my EDD.  I felt it was my lost LO giving me another chance.  I have to hold on to these little signs to help me through it all.  Every time I see a yellow butterfly flying around me I smile.  I feel it is my LO saying hi!  I don't know why but I do.

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  • When I had my m/c my due date was June 15th.  That happened to be the date that we had the big u/s so in a way we did meet our baby that day, just in a different way. :)

    I ended up being due in October as well, shortly after I had the m/c.  I think it's a nice little reminder.  Actually...is today the 12th?  No tomorrow.  That's the date of my m/c.  Interesting.  I kinda "forgot" about it until now. 

  • One thing I love about the bump, is people always understand. I'm sorry any of us have had any losses, but it always makes me feel less alone in my feelings to hear that I share them with a few women. It does feel so special to be expecting a baby when I lost one.

    I hope we can all find happiness in that.

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  • I think its beautiful that you gave your baby you lost a name, and have such strong memory and feelings for it.
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