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My dh is a poopy head

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My dh is a pain in the ass most of the time.  Not sure why, he's just made that way.  But today he is being especially ridiculous IMO.

tell me what you think (please).

Here's the deal - I joined a bump club a few months ago - they have fun cool events for expecting moms and couples.  part of the membership fee is dh and I can both go to one of their dinners (which is normally $50 a person) for free once per year. 

So I have been keeping in mind which dinner each month would work for us.  There is one this tuesday (they are always on tuesdays from 6 pm to 8 pm) - the topic is "Sleep safety" - Dh doesnt want to go - which is fine.  I want to go - I am only hesitant because I am battling a cold and might not feel up to it really.

Anyway - I asked him what time he picks up SD14 from acting on tuesdays - thinking I could run home after work, then drive over there if I go once they get back.  -- He claims he doesnt get home until 6:30 pm.  To which I kinda mused - well then maybe i'll jsut drive the car to work that day and then go directly from work to the dinner.

anyway - conversation goes on and he's not really a talker apparently - and i was headed back to work so I said I would call him back in a little bit. he replied:

"take your time"

To which I said what does that mean? eventually he said he had "anger in his belly" (yeah dh is weird) - anyway again i said i didnt understand him or what that meant.

I know perfectly well he is IMPLYING anger over me daring to use my own car or daring to go somewhere.

am I the only one that thinks this approach is bullshit and control oriented?  I am tempted to MAKE myself go to that dinner and take the car and tell him to kiss my ass.

So - what do you think? or am i over-reacting?
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Re: My dh is a poopy head

  • Irishgypsy88Irishgypsy88

    Umm...no, I wouldn't think so, especially if it's your car!  If you want to go to the dinner, then go.  You shouldn't need his permission to do anything.  While it's nice to have his "blessing," it is certainly not required.

    Is he mad that you want to do something without him?

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  • bridekimmiebridekimmie
    Your car, you wanna go, go.  If he doesn't want to, so be it.  Don't miss out on something just because he's being a jerk.  Hope you feel better and can make it!!
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