It's no secret that our daycare situation is super complicated w/ both kids at separate centers right now. We have been planning to simplify things by switching Sophie to the same daycare as Gavin as soon as they have a spot. I love his daycare and really want to stay there until he starts kindergarten, but honestly, I'm not sure that we can afford it! They've sent out their price list for next year and I don't know how we can pull it off. It will be a significant increase from what we are spending right now to have both of them there. Sending them to daycare in Acworth is risky since we can't guarantee that we will make it up there before closing if traffic is bad. We could bring Gavin back to daycare at my office since I have seen improvement in the last year. But its only a bandaid solution- we'll be in this same situation again next year when its time for Pre-K and I don't want to keep moving him around. I've considered other daycares in the area of my office as well, but seems like if I'm going to move him down here, might as well go with the one here at my office.
So, I've been brainstorming. They could both go to our church preschool. I send them there on Mondays for MMO while I telework anyway and I'd love to be able to send them here exclusively... but the hours just won't work- they only go until 1 pm. So I am considering hiring a nanny just for 3 days a week to handle drop off/pick up and keep the kids before/after school. What would you pay someone like this? Is it still hourly or would you just offer a flat amount each week/month to do the babysitting/running back and forth? I'm thinking of asking around at our church to see if anyone is interested- maybe one of the moms will want to earn some extra cash? Any other thoughts? I'm kind of getting desperate and I'm sick of dealing with it. I just want to simplify our lives already!
Re: On the subject of nanny's... another question
Honestly, I think you're going to have trouble finding someone to drop-off & pick-up and then watch the kids until 5-7pm unless it's another parent sending their kids to the same pre-school program.
I don't think many people would be willing to handle an early morning drop off and then have a 5-6 hour stretch where they aren't getting paid. That is a big break in the day, but enough of one that they would likely be able to find employment elsewhere to fill the time.
Have you thought about about a nanny share with someone in your area, or just hiring a nanny for three days a week? Depending on the pre-school at your church, it might be more feasible to pay for a part-time nanny and pre-school, rather than two kids enrolled full-time at your Gavin's current day-care. You could always structure your contract such that the nanny does certain tasks while the kids are at pre-school (i.e. a couple of loads of laundry, light house keeping, groceries, prep for dinner, etc..).
Either way, I think you'll probably end up having to pay an hourly rate, unless you can find another parent.
I don't envy your double drop-off, and I can't even imagine the stress associated with it. I hope you can find the right solution.
Yes, this is what I'm thinking- sorry... I rambled and didn't make that very clear. I have Mondays and Fridays covered- I would just need someone on Tu, W, Th. But yes, I like the idea of someone doing some stuff around the house while the kids are at preschool...
The college student thing is a great idea too... we do live really close to Kennesaw State. Hmmm...
I nannied in college for a couple different families and found them through KSU when I went there. They had advertised in their newspaper. Check out their classifieds online. There were also tons of flyers for this kind of thing when I went there, especially in the education and nursing buildings. It might not be as hard as you would think. So many college students have schedules where they need to work weird hours/days like that.