Hi all Iam new to the bump..had hoped to be posting to the May 2012 birth month but here I am, 5w2d on monday when I started cramping and bleeding and my bloodwork today showed I was back to zero. Doctor said I have to wait three months before trying...seems like forever away
I feel you...I was hoping for a May 1st baby only to find out its gone. Why did your doctor say you had to wait 3 months? I was in such a shock I rushed out of the doc's office before talking about any of that stuff...((HUGS))
She told me she would hate to see me experience this again and that because I got pregnant so soon after having my merina out (end of July) it would be best to let myself have three regular cycles before we jump back in. I am so sorry that you have gone through this 5 times. You ladies are indeed amazing support here!
So sorry for your loss. I found out just today too, my numbers dropped significantly. I was so excited to be a May mama...guess it just wasn't in God's plans. Hang in there, the ladies on this board are great!
TTC #1 since Aug 2010 * BFP Aug 2011, EDD April 16 2012 * MMC @ 7w5d, D&C @ 10w5d BFP Apr 2012, EDD Dec 19 2012 * twin h/b at 6wk, 9wk scan * Baby A lost at 12wks Baby B was my rainbow born at 36wks on Nov 27 2012
I was supposed to have a May baby as well but we lost ours on Thursday (7w4d). My doctor also recommended waiting 3 months. I think it's both to give you time to process and grieve as well to give your body a chance to recover and get back on track in terms of your cycle. My doc did say that I could get pregnant before then but she wouldn't recommend "actively trying" until then.
Re: so much for May
I am so very sorry for your loss.
The love and support I have found here have helped me so much. I hope you find that here as well.
CRAFTY ME
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BFP Apr 2012, EDD Dec 19 2012 * twin h/b at 6wk, 9wk scan * Baby A lost at 12wks
Baby B was my rainbow born at 36wks on Nov 27 2012