I finally got into my OB yesterday after spotting for 7 days then 3 days off then 1 day of spotting and then 3 days off and then 10 days of spotting again. Still no real period.
OB thinks that I didn't ovulate so my lining formed and sloughed unevenly. I am still discouraged about the delay in TTC, but my OB is being very proactive.
I will have a pelvic ultrasound (that I was not able to get in for another 2 weeks) and blood work to check my hormones. If nothing else looks off, she will start me on Provera to make me have a normal period and then meds to make me O. The only downside is the the O meds carry a higher risk for getting pregnant with multiples, but for DH and I that wouldn't be a downside really
Just wanted to post this encouragement in case anyone has experienced anything similar. Don't lose hope ladies!