Trying to Get Pregnant

6 Pregnancy Announcements......

In 2 days. One friend had a baby each month this year from January until now, and there is one due in October.  I am seriously loving all the baby snuggles, but I would be lying if I said it didn't sting just a tiny bit. 

Deep breath......

Ok, I'm over it.  Just needed to get that out.


** After  2 1/2 years of Unexplained IF, 2 failed medicated cycles, and 4 failed IUI's - our baby girl came to us through the miracle of
 Mini IVF! **

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Re: 6 Pregnancy Announcements......

  • I have several pregnant friends right now.  It is ridiculous.  Actually, I have a baby shower saturday.
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  • My friend group is kind of on a break right now. There are a number of us starting to try now (or soon) so the annoucements will probably start rolling in soon. Just seems like that is always how it is :)
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    TFAS: 09/2011 job changes so we stopped 12/2011 -- TFAS again: 10/3/2014 - IUD Removal
    BFP 12/19/2014 - EDD 8/27/2015
  • I hate facebook for this very reason. Today alone  saw 3 "new baby" pics. Its tough when it feels like everyone is pregnant or just had a baby. 

    and I also hate when people say "well you have one". Yes I do and I most certainly love her but it doesn't mean the feeling for another doesn't exist. 

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  • This is one area where I'm kind of glad we don't have many friends, and most of the ones we do have are single guys. But I do have "facebook level" friends who are having babies. Several of them are on baby one or two, and at my age (25) that's not surprising... but I do have a disconcerting number of acquaintances who are seeing their oldest kids off to third grade and stating that they are done having kids. I mean, yeah, being "done" is nobody's business, but here I am just desperately wanting a child, and I can't even begin to imagine what it would be like to have a few kids and feel as if my family is complete at age 25!

     

    I have a half niece who is a year older than I am, she was just married a few weeks ago and I am really, really hoping I don't get blindsided by a baby shower invite anytime soon. I'm an awful person for saying that but I can't deny it... at least I feel this way only with the assumption that they'll want kids; I don't know for sure. If I knew they were seriously trying I'd just hope for the best for both of us.

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  • I get where you're coming from.  I feel like it's everyday I hear about a pregnancy announcement on FB, from people at work, good friends of mine, and people telling me oh so-and-so random is pregnant. It's everywhere and I do get that initial "when will it be me?" thought but I'm also really happy for people and I like going to friends' baby showers. I just try to think to myself it's not a race, it's not now or never, keep trying and it will happen for me too.


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  • I totally know what you mean. It is not to say they you are not excited for people, but it is a small little voice that says, ok my turn :) Hopefully it will be soon for all of us. I am on 3rd cycle....
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    TTC Since Aug 2011/
    ME:34 all clear/DH:41 DX Severe MFI/
    IVF w/ICSI OCT 2012 Stims started 10/8/ER 10/19/12/ET 10/24/Beta#1 11/2=BFN (beta was 1.2)

    IVF 2.0-Baseline 11/7/12 beta 0/All Clear
    Stim start 11/7/12//ER 11/19 11M//10F
    ET 2 embies 11/24//Beta#1 28 Beta #2 23 Beta#3 29
    stop meds Beta#4 37/C/P 5W5D EDD:8/12/13/IVF#3 in Jan

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    Ivf#4 New dr. New protocol=beta1 197 beta#2 677 beta#3 1557
     u/s 8/13 =TWINS 2 strong hb
    Due Date 4/4/14

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  • I thought I had it bad with hearing three announcements in the last two days.  One announced it on FB, and she's a whole 5 weeks pregnant. Yikes!  Another actually said to me "It happened on the first try, so when you guys start trying, watch out." That stung a bit!  They don't know that we HAVE been trying. *sigh*
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    I thought I had it bad with hearing three announcements in the last two days.  One announced it on FB, and she's a whole 5 weeks pregnant. Yikes!  Another actually said to me "It happened on the first try, so when you guys start trying, watch out." That stung a bit!  They don't know that we HAVE been trying. *sigh*

    Sheesh. I love when people say stuff like this.


    ** After  2 1/2 years of Unexplained IF, 2 failed medicated cycles, and 4 failed IUI's - our baby girl came to us through the miracle of
     Mini IVF! **

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