My SS does want to work he told me "My dad doesn't care about anything I do and gives up on me. B told me the position I could have and I want to work there but I can't until my b-day (its next month). Then I can buy my own games and not have to ask my dad.
I told DH about his son living with us full time now and it's not the oh hang out and do what ever any more it's real life. We'll see how that goes.
Re: UPDATE to DH and teens working