I read bits and pieces of the Ferber book - but am still sort of confused regarding naps... I think he says to wait til nighttime sleep is consistently good. Um. We might be waiting a while then! Is there any harm to doing nap-sleep-training before or along with nighttime training?
Also- DD has become very dependent on being nursed for naps. MY fault totally, because I cave every time. She cries when I rock/soothe her.. and when we sit down to nurse, she has this HUGE open mouth as she cries/tries to find my boob! I can't recall how Ferber suggests to stop this nursing-for-naps crutch? I think it was replace w/another soothing method - but she won't have it. So, do I just let her cry (in increments)??