Let me start by saying.
1- my Mother does not listen, she only talks or waits to talk while someone else is talking.
2- my Mother has no ability to empathize.
We have been to counseling and therapists regarding the issues, so I am NOT LOOKING to change the above.
My father passed away a few years ago, he was my emotional support.
My mom lives 12 miles from us and we have good relationship, I see her often.
The issue, my mom has NO idea about our struggles with IF. Because she could not be supportive their was no point to share any info regarding our IVF treatments. My IL do know and were very involved and helpful.
Now what? Do we just let it go? She will eventuality fiq. out she is not going to have grandchildren. When it comes up do we simply say, 'we can not have children' ? This is such a big issue to have to avoid for the rest of our lives.
Any help would be appreciated.