it's hard to feel bad for a knocked up 20 year old

Miss.Modular · November 2008

whining about her 21st birthday.

try growing up first. tia

Ashley Pharez · November 2008

I guess you can't read because she wasn't whining. ?She said she was fine not going out.

Miss.Modular · November 2008

oh no, there was some whining in there. re-read it!

"but my friends completely suck about it. They don't even want to celebrate at a resturant with me. What the_fuck!?"

wahh wahh wahh. maybe they should go to the homecoming dance together!

Kaar17 · November 2008

She said she was disappointed in her friends who only want to do the party scene. She wasn't whining.

Gretchen kiolbasa · November 2008

um yeah ditto she wasnt whining...

go to baby gaga....i really think you should look through those posts, it will get you to stop judging everyone here alot

peace out

BabyMamaErin · November 2008

she didnt ask anyone to feel bad for her.

i'm not far from her age - some of us are quite grown up.

rease. · November 2008

She is overwhelmed.

Ashley Pharez · November 2008

Miss.Modular:
oh no, there was some whining in there. re-read it!
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"but my friends completely suck about it. They don't even want to celebrate at a resturant with me. What the_fuck!?"
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wahh wahh wahh. maybe they should go to the homecoming dance together!?
That's a legitimate vent. ?It doesn't matter how old you are when you are pregnant real friends should accomodate what you want to do on your birthday. JMO.?
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Ashley Pharez · November 2008

BabyMamaErin:
she didnt ask anyone to feel bad for her.
i'm not far from her age - some of us are quite grown up.

HA! Mod thinks anyone under the age of 30 is immature. ?She doesn't understand the concept that maturity is an individual thing.?

Miss.Modular · November 2008

I think she has to come to grips with the fact that MOST 20 year olds have NO CLUE how to relate to her now. Because they themselves are barely out of h.s. and not thinking about babies. she made this bed!

babesnyder · November 2008

excitedforlittleone:
I guess you can't read because she wasn't whining. She said she was fine not going out.

I agree and I'm not that far from her age either.

She was stating how she is actually ok with out the party scene and her friends were not. I see she is the one growing up not her friends.

And again the

birthcontrol.com

was not a needed statement on that post.

BabyMamaErin · November 2008

excitedforlittleone:
BabyMamaErin:

she didnt ask anyone to feel bad for her.

i'm not far from her age - some of us are quite grown up.

HA! Mod thinks anyone under the age of 30 is immature. She doesn't understand the concept that maturity is an individual thing.

ah. well can't say its a first, sadly.

Odd that I've been in a career for almost 5 years and married for going on a year... but us 'youngans' are immature.

gotcha.

wow.. Im surprised with my snappiness today. Im quite hungry.

Ashley Pharez · November 2008

Miss.Modular:
I think she has to come to grips with the fact that MOST 20 year olds have NO CLUE how to relate to her now.?? Because they themselves are barely out of h.s. and not thinking about babies.? she made this bed!
?
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Yes she did but it doesn't mean she isn't allowed to have feelings or to vent about it.?

skaplan000 · November 2008

You definitly know who your true friends are when your pregnant.

P.S. She wasnt whinning. She was venting, I didnt see anything wrong with that post.

Miss.Modular · November 2008

excitedforlittleone:
HA! Mod thinks anyone under the age of 30 is immature. She doesn't understand the concept that maturity is an individual thing.

LOL the CLASSIC bebe bride comeback! thanks for pulling it out!

Miss.Modular · November 2008

babesnyder:

And again the

birthcontrol.com

was not a needed statement on that post.

yes it was! it's a PSA!

SouthernBellelovesaYankee · November 2008

In response to your comment in my OP, I was on birth control.

Also, I wasn?t whining and I feel like I have made some better decisions about my pregnancy than most other woman have who are in my age group, I could?ve taken an easy way out, however I made the adult choice to have sex, therefore I am adult enough to be a mother and raise a child.

Unplanned/unexpected things happen in life and what you?ve got to do is take it and do your best with it.

birdie_1010 · November 2008

babesnyder:
excitedforlittleone:
I guess you can't read because she wasn't whining. She said she was fine not going out.

I agree and I'm not that far from her age either.

She was stating how she is actually ok with out the party scene and her friends were not. I see she is the one growing up not her friends.

And again the

birthcontrol.com

was not a needed statement on that post.

Agreed, things happen. I had my son at 22 due to basically the same circumstances as she had. I finished college and have a great job with a great company. I have my own house, my son is happy and healthy. Back off, she is not whining, just disappointed.

smismar · November 2008

Whether you are 21, 41, or 101 - if your friends are being a$$holes about your birthday, it sucks.

Ashley Pharez · November 2008

I too got pregnant on birth control. ?I guess that makes me an immature 23 year old lol.

I respect you southern.?

EMMB · November 2008

Where is the original post?

babesnyder · November 2008

Miss.Modular:

babesnyder:

And again the

birthcontrol.com

was not a needed statement on that post.

yes it was! it's a PSA!

SO your saying the birth control is the magical pill. Then little do you know. I was on BC and ended up pregnant.

MommyMimi27 · November 2008

SouthernBellelovesaYankee:

In response to your comment in my OP, I was on birth control.

Also, I wasn?t whining and I feel like I have made some better decisions about my pregnancy than most other woman have who are in my age group, I could?ve taken an easy way out, however I made the adult choice to have sex, therefore I am adult enough to be a mother and raise a child.

Unplanned/unexpected things happen in life and what you?ve got to do is take it and do your best with it.

Sounds pretty mature for a 20 year old.

babesnyder · November 2008

I agree Mommymimi, she seems to have her head on straight to me.

SouthernBellelovesaYankee · November 2008

Just an FYI, all of you guys rock. I appreciate the non-judgmental responses. I feel better, and let me tell you, I?m anxious to gobble up some hibachi instead of beer nuts!

That post was mainly for venting my frustrations about my ?friends? and the upcoming Holidays..not whining because I can?t go get sloppy drunk..I?m glad ya?ll know how to read.

LindseyS0504 · November 2008

SouthernBellelovesaYankee:
I could?ve taken an easy way out, however I made the adult choice to have sex, therefore I am adult enough to be a mother and raise a child.

Unplanned/unexpected things happen in life and what you?ve got to do is take it and do your best with it.

I'll raise my "glass" to that!

Ashley Pharez · November 2008

SouthernBellelovesaYankee:
Just an FYI, all of you guys rock. I appreciate the non-judgmental responses. I feel better, and let me tell you, I?m anxious to gobble up some hibachi instead of beer nuts!
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That post was mainly for venting my frustrations about my ?friends? and the upcoming Holidays..not whining because I can?t go get sloppy drunk..I?m glad ya?ll know how to read.

?And you had legitimate concerns to vent. Mod is a troll ignore her! I know you will have a great 21st! You can make up for it on your 22nd!?

Mrs.Bible · November 2008

Okay first of all why are you all sitting up here feeding Mod's need for drama...lol...

I read the post and I dont feel like she was whining about her situation - being 20 and pregnant - she was more venting that she was upset that her friends who are suppose to be celebrating her 21st birthday didnt want to do what she wanted to do - I mean damn it is HER birthday!!!!

As far as her maturity level - that has nothing to do with venting - I dont know one person who hasnt vented on one thing or another at some point in their life - and yes Mod this includes you!

As far as birthcontrol and "she made this bed" comments - totally uncalled for...because as I see it - yeah she made the bed and she is lying (quite comfortably I might add) in it.

So back off of her back and let her breath (and vent) as she chooses. If it is one thing I cannot stand is someone judging another....as if your life is all sugarplums and gumdrops....get real.

SouthernBellelovesaYankee · November 2008

Oh hell, now I am going to start crying. At work. HORMONES. I love you guys?

BabyMamaErin · November 2008

Mrs.Bible:

Okay first of all why are you all sitting up here feeding Mod's need for drama...lol...

I read the post and I dont feel like she was whining about her situation - being 20 and pregnant - she was more venting that she was upset that her friends who are suppose to be celebrating her 21st birthday didnt want to do what she wanted to do - I mean damn it is HER birthday!!!!

As far as her maturity level - that has nothing to do with venting - I dont know one person who hasnt vented on one thing or another at some point in their life - and yes Mod this includes you!

As far as birthcontrol and "she made this bed" comments - totally uncalled for...because as I see it - yeah she made the bed and she is lying (quite comfortably I might add) in it.

So back off of her back and let her breath (and vent) as she chooses. If it is one thing I cannot stand is someone judging another....as if your life is all sugarplums and gumdrops....get real.

Well said my dear Smile

JOEBunny · November 2008

I feel bad for anyone who is 20 and preg. That would suck.

CThoma587 · November 2008

Well at least she's not planning on drinking regardless.

texastwohearts · November 2008

I didn't read the OP but I feel for ya southern! I was pg when I turned 21 and none of my friends wanted to do anything with me. Luckily I have a very understanding husband and he took me out to a really nice dinner and a movie for my birthday. And to be even more considerate he didn't even get a beer with his steak for supper like he likes to do. He was really sweet. To me that was the best way to spend my 21st b-day. Just because it's your 21st doesn't mean you have to go out drinking like most people. Hang in there, you won't be pg forever, and feel free to vent no matter what anyone says on here. I'm sure they do their share of venting as well. Happy Birthday by the way!!