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Its a boy!!! with possible Downs Syndrome
Today is a special day. My husband and I found out that we are having a boy! Yeeaaa! During the ultrasound they noticed that there wasnt a nasal bone. The doctor told me the possibilities, but to be sure he told me to go to another doctor in the same building for a 2nd opinion. At the 2nd doctor he did 2 ultrasounds (one by him and one by his nurse). They both didnt see the nasal bone and also they saw something in the heart (cant remember what its called) that is also a sign of Downs Syndrome. At that point they did an amniocentesis and we will know the results by Thurs/Friday.
I have a lot on my mind. Of course I want a "normal" child, but I know that God doesnt make mistakes! We are going to love this child the same way that we love our 6 year old daugther. I am praying that everything will be fine, but I will be the best parent I can possibly be no matter what the results are. I have a very caring heart and my child is a gift from God. I just ask for your prayers and any encouraging words. Thanks!
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Re: Its a boy!!! with possible Downs Syndrome
and after 82 days in the NICU, our little girl is home!
First congrats on the little boy. That is exciting. I have a dd and now having a son.
You have a wonderful attitude. I also believe in God and know that He does things for reasons. You will be a wonderful parent to him even if he does have Downs and He knew that from the start.
Just pray for your little boy and I am sure everything will work out OK no matter what happens.
Do you have a name for your little guy yet? I will pray for him of course but I do like to put a name with the person I am praying for.
Would you keep my name and PM me when you get those results.....I want to know how everything works out for you.
And Elias Parker, Born 3.5 weeks early 12/20/2011
FINALLY!!! After 7 years of infertility!
Proud mother of two breech babies:)
Congratulations on your baby boy. I was going to agree with the pp that I admire your postitive attitude after hearing the news. I admire it even more now after reading about all you have been through. I aslo agree that God will not put more on you than you can bare. I hope the tests are wrong and your baby boy is fine. If not, you were chosen to be his mother because of all your strength and love you have for your children.
My best friend just had a baby with down syndrome and he has an av valve defect (I didn't know if that was what you were trying to remember.)
With that being said, I truly believe that God gives special babies to special parents. I admire your attitude and I know that you will do great with whatever you are dealt. It is hard for some to remember that a baby with down syndrome will still grow up as a happy child. They will still giggle and laugh and hit milestones like any other chilld. I am so glad that you are looking at the positive and not dwelling on the negative. Congrats on your new little prince and my t and p are with you!
ETA: I just realized that I posted on the second tri board. I thought I was on the first tri board the whole time, and couldn't figure out how you already knew what you were having. Lol! I might be losing my mind
I just wanted to add that there is a "Special Needs" board that might be a good resource for you.
Best wishes to you!
Congrats on the baby boy news!!
T & P's your way for the next couple of days while you wait for the results of your test! Wishing you the best!
My co-worker had a Down baby a year and a half ago. She didn't know until she gave birth. She was initially upset, but has since said "it's the greatest gift you never knew you wanted". I think you have an amazing outlook and only having read this one post, I think you will be an amazing Mommy.
Congratulations on your little boy!
You are an amazing woman.
I don't know if you've read Kelle Hampton's blog before, but she is amazing. Her daughter Nella was born with down syndrome and her journey is absolutely worth reading.
www.kellehampton.com
It's a GIRL!
My BFF has twin boys--one has DS the other does not. She always says her son with DS has such a sweet nature that it helps balance out the craziness of his hyperactive brother. He has had a few minor health issues, but overall he is a healthy happy little guy.
I agree that God will only give you what he knows you can handle. No matter what I hope you have a happy healthy baby boy. :-)
Definitely sending T&P your way!
I have a close friend whose DS1 has Downs. He is only a couple weeks younger than my DD1 and is considered to be incredibly high functioning - he has no problems "keeping up" with DD1 or other kids his age. He also has no Downs-related health issues either. So it is possible for him to still be "normal"
Just hang in there and try not to stress until you get the results.
If he does end up having Downs, try to find a local Easter Seals organization - they are a non-profit that offers various services for individuals with disabilities from infancy to adulthood. They can be a great resource for your family. I used to work for them and have seen first hand the positive impact that they have had on many families
edited to correct gender
Congratulations on the boy! Like PP said you are going to be a wonderful mom. You totally have the right attitude, so maybe God knew that you could handle it.
I have a nephew with Downs and I wouldn't trade him for the world. Yes there are some difficulties but the rewards are wonderful as well. GL!
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