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Pushed Back Yet Another Month!!!!

Toni79Toni79 member
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So I am so frustrated with my body right now!  I just need to vent . . .

So 7/19/11 I got a BFN on my second IVF.  I was hoping I could just jump right into my next IVF cycle.  My RE was ok with it.  

But my insurance co makes me do yearly CD 3 BW.  Since I had just come off a medicated cycle my E2 was super elevated.  My RE wasn't concerned since he knew why.  But the insurace co said I had to take a month off and have a natural AF. 

Ok, fine, I was pushed out a month because of my insurance comany.

But then . . . I was expecting AF to come in about 30 days after my IVF related AF.  It never came.  I had a freaking 56 day cycle!?!?!?  During that time I had a "missed menses" work up.  They found that I had not O'd.  But my lining was thick.  I had the choice to wait it out or take progesterone (oral) for a week and when I come off I should have AF.  I choose to take the progesterone. 

Ok fine, I was pushed back a second month because my body refused to AF.

So AF finally came and I went in TODAY for my CD 3 BW and US.  And guess what . . . I have a cyst!  So now I have to waite a third month!

I was a little confused.  How could I have a cyst if I hadn't O'ed?!?!?  My nurse said that after I came for my missed menses eval I developed the cyst (and I may had o'ed then.  I'm also annoyed with myself because I didn't chart these first 2 "off" months, and now I wished I had because I think it would have helped me understand what was going on with my body a little better.  I'm going to chart this month - just so I know what's going on!

Seriously if I would have know my stimms would be starting 3 months later than I had thought, I would have gone on a DIET or something to loose all this stupid IF related weight I've gained. Maybe that's what I'll do over the next couple of weeks just to keep my mind off of things!

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  • MsGMChickMsGMChick member
    Good lord, woman! That's a lot of waiting. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that. I hope that cyst shrinks soon and you can move on. 
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  • StretchadStretchad member
    That is so frustrating. I'm sorry!!!!
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  • Mayan2011Mayan2011 member
    IF tests many things and unfortunately our patience is at the top of the list.  I am so sorry things haven't gone the way you wished they would.  I hope you body starts cooperating soon and you can get IVF 3 on the road!
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  • Ruthie04Ruthie04 member
    Oh no!! I'm so sorry. Cysts are the worst! I hope it resolves quickly so that you can get things on the road.
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  • Ann679Ann679 member
    Oh geez!  I'm so sorry.  That's frustrating. Hopefully you can start soon.  Hugs!
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  • babina868babina868 member
    I'd be really frustrated too.  I hope next month's your month!
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  • RachH517RachH517 member
    Ugh, that is so frustrating. It always feels just like one thing after another, after another. I swear I count time in months and not days anymore. I am sorry you have to go through this. Hang in there!
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    10/10 and 11/10- 2 rounds of Menopur + TI= BFNS
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    1/11- IUI #2 Menopur = BFP, 2/11 missed mc at 9 weeks, D&C
    5/11- Operative Hysteroscopy to remove uterine septum
    6/11- IUI #3 Menopur = BFP, 8/11 missed mc at 11 weeks, D&C
    1/12- Lap and Operative Hysteroscopy to remove uterine septum (again) & scar tissue
    2/12- Stint Removal, 3/12 repeat SHG and HSG- showed scar tissue blocking right tube
    4/12- Operative hysteroscopy (again), RE said he can now see right tube (yay!)
    5/12- Stint removal, 6/12 repeat SHG and HSG-both tubes are open!
    8/12- IUI #4 Bravelle = BFN
    9/12-IUI #5 Bravelle = BFN
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  • Toni79Toni79 member

    imageMayan2011:
    IF tests many things and unfortunately our patience is at the top of the list. 

    Haha, this exactly! 

    Thank you all so much for letting me vent.  I know its not the end of the world that I have to wait not 1, not 2, but now 3 months between cycles.  But its just so frustrating.

    My Journey to Motherhood
    Me 36, DH 42
    7.5 years of TTC ... It never gets any easier.


    Baby Girl # 1
    TTC Since January 2009
    Reproductive Endocrinologist diagnosed us "Unexplained Infertility".
    After 3 years . . . 3 IUIs . . . and 3 IVFs . . . our miracle GIRL arrived on August 6, 2012.

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    Baby Girl # 2
    TTC Since June 2013
    Got pregnant on our own without Fertility Treatments - January 2016!  Thank you snow storm Jonas!
    EDD 10/15/16
    At 20-week anatomy scan found IUGR (Intrauterine Growth Restriction), and very low Amniotic Fluid.  Now, I'm High Risk and have weekly ultrasounds to monitor fluid and growth.  If baby runs out of room or is too growth restricted, they will deliver ASAP.  My current goal is to make it to 28 weeks!   


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  • Toni79Toni79 member

    imageRachH517:
    I swear I count time in months and not days anymore.

    This exactly (too)!!!

    My Journey to Motherhood
    Me 36, DH 42
    7.5 years of TTC ... It never gets any easier.


    Baby Girl # 1
    TTC Since January 2009
    Reproductive Endocrinologist diagnosed us "Unexplained Infertility".
    After 3 years . . . 3 IUIs . . . and 3 IVFs . . . our miracle GIRL arrived on August 6, 2012.

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Baby Girl # 2
    TTC Since June 2013
    Got pregnant on our own without Fertility Treatments - January 2016!  Thank you snow storm Jonas!
    EDD 10/15/16
    At 20-week anatomy scan found IUGR (Intrauterine Growth Restriction), and very low Amniotic Fluid.  Now, I'm High Risk and have weekly ultrasounds to monitor fluid and growth.  If baby runs out of room or is too growth restricted, they will deliver ASAP.  My current goal is to make it to 28 weeks!   


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