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Had to bite my tongue...

So I guess I need to start taking all of your advice and hide this girl on Fbook.  She unexpectedly got KU and has been basically complaining about it ever since.  Today she posted asking what kind of bottles to use cause there are too many to pick from.  When someone responded that she should breastfeed at first this was her response....... 

I am gonna breastfeed i have 2 since the state gives me nothing for free but gonna pump cause sucky the nippy is icky.

REALLY?!?!?!??!?!?!   I had to bite my toungue.  I wanted to respond....guess what honey. The state isnt paying for a damn thing for me either and trust me, I have spent enough already on IF to buy you every damn baby bottle ever made.....but I didnt.  Geesh

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  • I would definitely hide her...she sounds like a complete moron and not worth your angst. I am sorry you had to be subjected to that :-/
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  • Oh my gosh, hide that person on fb.  No way could I ever deal with reading those posts.  It will probably get worse after she has the baby.  So hide her now! :)  That really is disturbing.  I feel bad for her poor baby already.
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  • She sounds a little... I don't know, ignorant? Either way, she sounds like a dumbass. Hide her! It will be too upsetting the more pregnant she gets!
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  • Yeah, I think she's a definite candidate for hiding *shaking head in disbelief*
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  • imagetgreenf:

    I am gonna breastfeed i have 2 since the state gives me nothing for free but gonna pump cause sucky the nippy is icky.

    Indifferent

    I would have to defriend.

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  • Ugh...this girl makes me sick.  I'm sure it would make you feel better to block her idiotic comments.  It sucks to hear/read things like that...people have no clue!
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  • O.M.G.  "The nippy is icky"?!?!  Hide the hell out of her. 

    Sorry you had to deal with that :(

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  • In the mood I'm in today, I wish she were my friend. I'd let her have it.

     

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  • oh good god. I would have to hide/delete her. How do you know her? I don't know what I would do if I had to deal with someone like that. Good luck with whatever decision you make :)
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  • imageKathy4678:
    imagetgreenf:

    I am gonna breastfeed i have 2 since the state gives me nothing for free but gonna pump cause sucky the nippy is icky.

    Indifferent

    I would have to defriend.

    I was going to say the same thing. I couldn't keep someone like that as a friend.

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    imagetgreenf:

    I am gonna breastfeed i have 2 since the state gives me nothing for free but gonna pump cause sucky the nippy is icky.

    Indifferent

    I would have to defriend.

     

    Agreed.  I would un-friend her!   

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  • imageeponine7682:
    She sounds a little... I don't know, ignorant? Either way, she sounds like a dumbass. Hide her! It will be too upsetting the more pregnant she gets!

     

    My sentiments EXACTLY! 

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  • She is a girl I went to high school with.  Didnt really talk to her much then so not even sure why I am friends with her on there.  But I am no longer!!  :-)
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  • imagekz's_girlygirl:

    O.M.G.  "The nippy is icky"?!?!  Hide the hell out of her. 

    This.  She sounds like one of the 16-year-old MUD idiots over on TTGP...  What an idiot.  The fact that these people get KU before we do... :::shakes head:::  There is truly no justice in the world!

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  • imageeponine7682:
    She sounds a little... I don't know, ignorant? Either way, she sounds like a dumbass. Hide her! It will be too upsetting the more pregnant she gets!

     

    no kidding!

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  • imagetgreenf:

    So I guess I need to start taking all of your advice and hide this girl on Fbook.  She unexpectedly got KU and has been basically complaining about it ever since.  Today she posted asking what kind of bottles to use cause there are too many to pick from.  When someone responded that she should breastfeed at first this was her response....... 

    I am gonna breastfeed i have 2 since the state gives me nothing for free but gonna pump cause sucky the nippy is icky.

    REALLY?!?!?!??!?!?!   I had to bite my toungue.  I wanted to respond....guess what honey. The state isnt paying for a damn thing for me either and trust me, I have spent enough already on IF to buy you every damn baby bottle ever made.....but I didnt.  Geesh

     

    I had the same issue,but didn't bite my tongue lol. A girl on my FB had only been married a month or two before getting KU and it went from "Ugh Im so sick this sucks" to "omg I cant decide if I should go with this middle name or this one,why is my life so hard"...I went off on her at that one,then I blocked her. The whole time she knew we were having trouble TTC..

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  • imageheatherswissler:
    imagetgreenf:

    So I guess I need to start taking all of your advice and hide this girl on Fbook.  She unexpectedly got KU and has been basically complaining about it ever since.  Today she posted asking what kind of bottles to use cause there are too many to pick from.  When someone responded that she should breastfeed at first this was her response....... 

    I am gonna breastfeed i have 2 since the state gives me nothing for free but gonna pump cause sucky the nippy is icky.

    REALLY?!?!?!??!?!?!   I had to bite my toungue.  I wanted to respond....guess what honey. The state isnt paying for a damn thing for me either and trust me, I have spent enough already on IF to buy you every damn baby bottle ever made.....but I didnt.  Geesh

     

    I had the same issue,but didn't bite my tongue lol. A girl on my FB had only been married a month or two before getting KU and it went from "Ugh Im so sick this sucks" to "omg I cant decide if I should go with this middle name or this one,why is my life so hard"...I went off on her at that one,then I blocked her. The whole time she knew we were having trouble TTC..

     

    Ugh - some people are unreal!  Sorry you had to deal with that stupidity and ignorance!

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  • thats a blocker...

    i have blocked 2 people so far...due to similar circumstances.  not soooo bad as "sucky the nippy is icky", but still bad.

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  • imageKathy4678:
    imagetgreenf:

    I am gonna breastfeed i have 2 since the state gives me nothing for free but gonna pump cause sucky the nippy is icky.

    Indifferent

    I would have to defriend.

    I agree with this.

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  • sucky the nippy is icky? seriously? I would def hide her! People really need to think about what they say before they say it. 
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  • For real?  I wouldn't be able to tolerate this level of stupidity either.  She'd be hidden or defriended in a heartbeat.  Yikes.
  • Oh so many things wrong with that! Definitely a hider/defriender!!
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