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"I am praying you go early"

ondjimaondjima member
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My boss told me this today, as DH asked for some time off for when baby comes. I really want him at home for a few weeks, as we are out here by ourselves. Anyway, my boss said this today so the weeks DH wants off will be over the school break. But that would mean that my baby comes at 35 weeks. DH said not too early I hope, and then he just laughed. He is suck a jerk sometimes. 

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  • jcathjcath member
    That's ridiculous and your boss should know better.  Sorry he was so insensitive.
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  • MrsVoMrsVo member
    Awful.  Bosses can be so aggravating.  Mine called this morning to see if I would be working from home while on bed rest.  Ummm no! 

    Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
    11/10 - Clomid Round 1 = BFN
    12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
    1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
    2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
    3/11 - Femara + IUI = BFP * Beta#1=56 * Beta#2=266
    *Cautiously expecting baby girls on November 28, 2011*
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  • Sunshine05Sunshine05 member
    Ugh, what a jerk.  I don't think people realize how important it is to go as close to 40w as you can with a pregnancy!  Even when we had our little scare and have had news of potentially delivering between 33-37w I've had people telling me that it will be fine b/c they know XYZ who delivered even earlier.  Well, yeah, I realize that more than likely everything will be fine if she came at this point, but there's a reason pregnancy is designed to be 40 weeks long!  Blah.
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  • ashonkwiler09ashonkwiler09
    Inappropriate. I honestly don't think that some people realize that having a baby come too early, even if just a few weeks early can be dangerous to the health of the baby. Some people are just ignorant. Sorry you had to deal with that.
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  • STL34STL34 member
    Sorry your boss was so insensitive.  I hope your baby doesn't come that early! 

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    ~SAIF/PAIF/Everyone Welcome~ 

    Me= 37 and DH = 41 

    Dx: DOR, Endo, APA+ (really high beta 2 glycoprotein antibody and high everything else tested), heterozygous MTHFR mutation, positive for lupus anticoagulant, high FSH, low AMH and both tubes blocked (per HSG on 3/8/11)

    IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN

    IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.

    IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132.  Lil is here!

    TTC#2:  Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.

    IVF #4:  BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #5:  MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #6:  (New RE):  Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN

    FET#1:  BFN

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  • etoyamaetoyama member
    Ew, what an idiot :(
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  • ondjimaondjima member
    Thanks ladies, I knew you would understand!
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