TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Update to: Not sure this is AW- headstone

First and foremost, thank you so much for all your support, encouragement, and hugs!  I can never fully express how much comfort and strength you all have given me this week!

Today was the day.  DH and I left early this morning to head up to the cemetery.  We wanted to be sure we had plenty of time before it got too hot.  DH did most of the work-- mixing concrete, digging, ect.  After the stone was in place I rearranged all Logan's gifts, flowers, toys, and his pinwheel neatly around it.  DH even poured a little extra concrete next to the stone for me to sit Logan's vase I made months ago.  It wasn't easy being there or doing that job; but DH and I both found some relief and peace.  It's the only job we get as Logan's parents, so we want to do it to the best of our ability.  He doesn't have the largest, most elaborate headstone, but if felt right giving him a little something that shows he was, is, and forever will be loved and missed.  Thanks again, ladies!  This has been a rough week, but your support has helped me keep it together.

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Re: Update to: Not sure this is AW- headstone

  • It really looks lovely.  Big (((HUGS))).  You and your DH are wonderful parents.
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  • Oh hun!!! It's beautiful!!! {{{hugs}}} 

     

    I agree with you, as Aurora's parents we take care of her columbarium as well. It's such a great honor to do so.  


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  • It looks great!
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  • That looks absolutely beautiful *huge hug* You and your husband are wonderful parents to Logan!
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  • I think it looks awesome! You guys did a fantastic job.
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  • I'm sure that wasn't easy but it looks amazing. *hugs*
  • It looks beautiful!!  ((((hugs))))  I am sure it was a very difficult day. 
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  • It's beautiful.  I'm sure many who see it will be touched by how much your sweet boy is loved.  
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  •  its absolutely perfect.
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  • Wow - that is truely beautiful.  You guys did a great job.  Big giant (((((HUGS)))))

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  • It looks great!  I'm glad that you were able to find a little peace.  Logan is so lucky to have you as his mommy Big Smile
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  • Good job.  I admire your strength and courage.  I'm sure that wasn't easy to do.  (((BIG HUGS)))

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