I've been trying to get M to drink milk from a cup, but he has zero interest so far. I still have a small amount of BM left in my freezer, but my stash will be gone in 2 weeks, and I'm not going to give him cow milk in a bottle, so this transition is happening in 2 weeks, whether he likes it or not. Any tips on how to make this transition easier? I've already tried offering him both BM and cow milk in a cup, but he won't drink either. He will drink other things from a cup, however (water and watered-down juice), so I don't think it's a cup issue. He just won't drink milk from a cup.
I know he doesn't necessarily need milk if he gets calcium from other sources, but he currently gets 10 oz of BM a day, and I'm worried about how he's going to replace those calories if he doesn't drink milk.
Re: Need advice re switching from bottles to cups
I think a lot of us had similar problems at transition time. I know C did. He would drink water from a sippy fine, but basically throw a sippy full of milk across the room. Really, the only thing we did was stick with it and ride it out for a few days. The first bottle of the morning was easiest because he was usually so starving he didn't care what we gave him and then the rest got easier as well.
I'm sure you could try one of the million other cups that are out there, but for us it was just a matter of going cold turkey and riding it out. And it was literally only a few days.
we had to do cold turkey too. friday night we got rid of all bottles (and the drying rack they usually were on) and then Saturday morning just offered the sippy cup and she did not put up a fight.
She only liked the munchkin sippy cups with the soft valve for a long time. Now, she prefers a straw.
I would start with the "easier" ones first--not the bottles before naps or bedtime (if you do that) but the ones during the day with no routine attached. We found some sippies that were sort of like bottles (these) and that helped.
It also helped to have daycare work on this, too. J still sometimes wants a bottle before his nap on the weekend (don't judge!) but he hasn't had a bottle for his nap at daycare in probably a year. I think it helped to see all the other kids drinking out of cups, so he wanted one too.
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I wrote a very similar post just a couple of months ago! DD was easy, she learned how to drink from a straw cup (we don't do sippies at our house) in 2 hrs at 8mo old and by 12mo she was off bottles and 100% using straw cups.
DS was not easy. He took a mix of cow and BM in a bottle fine but refused in a cup. I stopped putting BM in it b/c I was running out and didn't want to waste it. We went back to bottles until I ran out of BM at 13.5mo, this is also when I fully weaned from nursing. I just took away all bottles (we used Playtex and I set a goal of once we ran out of drop-ins, we don't buy any more) and gave him cups. Sometimes, he'd take a sip, sometimes he'd spit it out, sometimes he'd swallow it. It took 1.5mos!! (nothing is easy with this kid) but we put milk in his oatmeal and milk in his cottage cheese and he gets a YoBaby yogurt each night. After 1.5mo he started drinking milk from a straw cup. There are still days I don't think he drinks enough but overall, I think he gets enough calcium (will discuss w/ pedi at his check-up). For us, it did take a long time but I just stuck with it. Good luck!
It's been a slow process for DD. She's finally mastered straw cups, but will take much longer to drink from them.
Our pedi said she wasn't concerned if we continued to use bottles for a while as long as she's not getting more than 20 oz of milk a day.
This is a good idea. I don't drink milk myself, let alone whole milk, but I could take one for the team if it helps to get him to drink it.
this is how I taught DD to drink from a straw cup; she mimicked me and got it right away; it took DS 2 months to get it!