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Feeling pessimistic about this cycle

JessandJeremyJessandJeremy member
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Ugh.... I'm trying so hard to be hopeful but I'm just not. Nothing feels different. On my successful IUI cycle I felt a poking sensation at 6 dpiui and I didn't have that at all today. I know it worked in the past.... But it's close to impossible for this to work due to DHs low postwash count. I need my spirits lifted and to shout a big FUIF!!
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  • emmyloustuemmyloustu
    2ww is the worst! It messes with the head. Good luck! Thinking about you!
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  • ShannonSkyShannonSky member
    Oooh, no! Don't be pessimistic! On the cycle I got pregnant with Ellie, I didn't even think to test b/c I felt so normal. Lots of people don't have symptoms until much later, you know that! *hugs* Are you going to test before beta? When???
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  • RadlerRadler member

    Oh, it's such a mind game, isn't it? I had zero symptoms with my BFP with my DS. (Or at least nothing that couldn't have been my normal cycle...) I was so sure it hadn't worked that I was in tears taking the pregnancy test. And two lines popped up.

    I'm in the 2ww now, too, so I'm right there with you. Hang on! 

    After 7 failed IUIs, IVF w/ ICSI worked!!

    I am thankful every day for my miracle after infertility.

    And thrilled to be pregnant again after FET!

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  • desabeandesabean member
    I can tell you first hand that feeling like it didn't work doesn't mean poop. I have a good feeling for you, hang in there!!
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  • njdcgirlnjdcgirl member
    I'll shout with you - FUIF!!! That said, you know every pg is different and just b/c you don't have any symptoms yet means nothing about the outcome. I was another one who had zero symptoms before my positive beta. Hang in there - and lots of pg vibes to you!!!
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  • beebe929beebe929 member

    It only takes one.  We did 4 IUIs, once cycle we had LESS than 1M and I got pg.  Since it was a crappy a$$ egg that fertilized it was chemical but it fertilized with so few.

    It can work.  Maybe this cycle is a bust.  I hope it isn't!  But you can try again!!!  Good luck!! So so pulling for you!

     

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  • MouseygailMouseygail member
    I'm sorry that the 2WW is getting you down!!  I hope that this is just teh start of a relatively easy pregnancy!! :)
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  • +jenjen++jenjen+

    Ugh, analyzing symptoms (or the lack thereof) is the worst mind game ever!  I had zero symptoms during my successful cycle and was sure it didn't work, but thankfully I was wrong.  Good luck - looking forward to your BFP post!

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  • kme930kme930 member
    I'm sorry you're feeling this way! I'm still hopeful for you!
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  • GypsyEsqGypsyEsq member

    It's ok to be pessimistic, you feel the way you need to feel right now and rest assured that SAIF has got your back and we feel great about your chances on this cycle!  Sometimes just knowing that other people are rooting for you and believe when you don't is enough - ya know? 

    And FUIF!

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