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Just need to vent a little...TTC#2 this month and so down. My 84yo grandma got sick last week and died on wed. Because of the holiday weekend we had to wait a week for her funeral. I was in charge of picking out her flowers, casket and clothes. We were very close so this pretty much did me in... At this point I was super tired, mentally drained and still try to function to take care of my almost 3yo. During this WHOLE ordeal NO ONE has asked me how I am doing or how I am feeling and I just feel overlooked...I know I know very selfish, but I need help too. Then on top of everything I started my period at the funeral mass (a day late so my hopes were still up) Just about to break 
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Official Due Date 5/29/15 & HB 143 on 10/13; 11/25 Harmony Results perfect & it's a Girl!
Off BCP 5/2009
TTC since July 2010
DH's SA = Normal!
Hysteroscopy 2/2011
50mg Clomid / Progesterone 77.5 April 2011 = BFN
25mg Clomid / Progesterone 53 May 2011= BFN
25mg Clomid / Progesterone 44.3 June 2011= BFN
5mg Femara / Progesterone 15.7 July 2011= BFN
5mg Femara / Progesterone 14 August 2011= BFN
5mg Femara + Crinone / Progesterone 32 September 2011=BFN
5mg Femara + Crinone / Progesterone 14.9 October 2011=BFN
First RE Appointment 11/2011
Hysteroscopy 11/2011 & on Med break
12/2011 Diagnosed with PCOS (Insulin Resistant)
12/2011 Adding 1000 MG Metformin per day
12/14/11 BFP
Beta #1 664 Beta #2 3330 Beta #3 6160 Beta #4 19546
Official Due Date 8/18/12 & HB 147 on 1/3; HB 171on 1/19
Pre-term labor @ 29W bed-rest till Emergency C-Section
IT'S A GIRL
IUI #1=BFN
IUI #2=BFP! Beta#1:87 Beta #2:1050
~It's a GIRL!~
"Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength."
Sorry to hear about your grandma. I know it can be rough to deal with all of that, especially by yourself.
Hope you feel better soon!
My Blog: One Emerald
BFP#1: 9-13-11 EDD: 5-26-12 MMC: 11-4-11 D&C: 11-8-11
BFP#2: 7-6-12 Elizabeth Faye ("Zuzu") born 3-21-13
Let's try this again...
So sorry to hear about your grandmother, and that no one asked how you were handling everything. I really hope if you did break, the pieces are coming back together.
I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I am close with mine as well and it would definitely be tough to mourn without feeling like you're being supported by those around you. I hope you're able to find peace and are able to celebrate her memory.
"I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way." - Pablo Neruda
y&j together since 2/1/04, married since 10/27/07
Made with love 4/13/08 & arrived 12/31/08 @ 7 lbs. 9 oz., 19.75 inches
BC free since 11/2010, BFP 11/6/11 My Ovulation Chart
EDD 07/29/2017
Dx PCOS 2002...500mgs metformin
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DH: 37
Married: May 24, 2008
TTC #2 since: June 2020
I'm sorry to hear about your loss! I know it can be hard losing a loved one and having no one reach out to you and see how you are feeling. Or someone just lending a shoulder for you to cry on. I lost my father in February and I have yet to receive a phone call to tell me that they are sorry (from my family on his side) and it hurt so much!
That also stinks that you started AF! But, don't give up hope. Take this time to indulge on some really fattening chocolate and turn to your SO for support! It'll get easier in time!
My Ovulation Chart
TTC #1 since March 2010
DH - SA = Low Morphology. Great overall count.
August 2012: HSG - All Clear
September 2012: Timed Intercourse 100 mg Clomid CD 4-8 w/ Repronex & HCG Injections = BFN
October 2012: Timed Intercourse 100 mg Clomid CD 4-8 = BFN
September 2013: New Doctor: 50 mg Clomid CD 5-9 & IUI #1 = BFN
October 2013: 50 mg Clomid CD 3-7 & IUI #2 = BFN
November 2013 to ??? = On a mental break for now.