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I made preggos cry

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Yep I lost it in the waiting room of the Ob's office and then one by one everyone was crying. I ran into the bathroom but they followed me, one asked if I was m/c and said her sister had two and is not 28 weeks so ok but then another came in and hugged me and said it will be ok I had sex once with my husband after I was worried because we had been trying for 3 months and the rest of my family gets knocked up fast (I felt like I was on the outside looking in shocked) she told me just relax and it will happen. I'm sorry if I just relax that will bring the fetus back that actually wasn't it was just cells? Then I started bawling again and my OB's secretary who by this point is my best friend came and saved me and took me back to her office and cheered me up by talking about my biopsies I have to have b/c they didnt do them Friday. Yeah!
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  • apollonia10apollonia10 member
    I'm sorry you had to go through this. I cried so hard after my OB told me I was in the middle of a m/c that people probably thought I was dying. I cried in the room, then waiting for blood draw, then waiting for OB again. It's hard when people try to give you advice during a low moment.
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  • chels38026chels38026
    I am so sooo sorry you had to go through this!  And ill-timed advice just makes it worse Sad
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  • jessican08jessican08 member

    ((HUGE HUGS)) I'm so sorry.

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  • kellyrn9956kellyrn9956 member
    I had an GYN appt for my annual exam a few weeks after my m/c. It was with a new OB/GYN. That office probably thinks I'm insane. I was surrounded by pregnant women. I then could hear the dopplers through the walls. I lost it and cried like a baby. That should have been ME listening to a doppler. I was a mess. I am so sorry that you had that experience.
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  • farmerlyndafarmerlynda member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, and that you had to go through this.  (((hugs))) 

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  • kelnyckelnyc member
    That's rough. I'm really sorry.  ((hugs))
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  • BRBR member
    That sounds really terrible and makes me want to cry just reading it.  So sorry. :(
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  • machole513machole513
    ((BIG hugs)) I'm so sorry :(
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  • Mrs.UmmMrs.Umm member

    (((hugs)))

    I am so sorry. People always seem to make things worse with their "advice".

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  • MrsParker44MrsParker44 member

    **hughug**

    People can say the stupidest things sometimes. I'm so sorry. 

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  • pulga131pulga131
    Im sorry that you had to go through this today. People can be so stupid sometimes. Big hugs
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  • megmacpmegmacp
    I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
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  • RovinChickRovinChick member
    So sorry you have to go through this.  I lost it in the OB waiting room when I had my m/c, too.  The secretary was helpful in ushering me back to a room and made sure that my follow-up appt was made during the block of time set aside for only gyn stuff and no preggies would be in the waiting room. *hugs*
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  • Nikki_Hefner Nikki_Hefner
    I'm so sorry :(
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  • renee3n2008renee3n2008 member
    ((hugs)) I'm sorry hon!
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  • ShanRich0810ShanRich0810
    Oh I am so sorry. There was a pregnant woman at my RE's office (she was dropping off something from another company not an actual patient of my RE.) and she overheard me and the nurse talking about my m/c and she told me to "Just relax...it will happen." and I had the strong urge to kick her in the face. I'm sorry you had to go through that. Right Hug
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  • saratryingsaratrying member

    imagekellyrn9956:
    I had an GYN appt for my annual exam a few weeks after my m/c. It was with a new OB/GYN. That office probably thinks I'm insane. I was surrounded by pregnant women. I then could hear the dopplers through the walls. I lost it and cried like a baby. That should have been ME listening to a doppler. I was a mess. I am so sorry that you had that experience.

     

    Ditto!

    I think they should have a special waiting room for those going through IF with very comfortable chairs and hot guys serving champagne (since, of course, we can drink it)

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    me: 39 DH: 36      dx: unexplained (ugh) 

    January 2011 - December 2012: 4 cycles w/Clomid; 9 IUIs w/Follistim & Menopur;  two IVF cycles converted to IUI (poor response/dominant follicle) 

    August 2014 IVF (antagonist protocol: Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix, dexamethasone): 13 eggs, 9 mature, 8 fertilized w/ICSI; 0 frozen, 3 transferred day 5 = BFN

    October 2014 IVF (micro-lupron protocol: mircrolupron, Menopur, Follistim, dexamethasone): 8 eggs, 4 mature, 3 fertilized w/ICSI; 3 transferred day 3 = BFP! Beta 1=121; Beta 2=287; Beta 3 =678. Miscarriage @ 8w2d. :(
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  • ILoveHelloKitty1982ILoveHelloKitty1982
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    That sounds really terrible and makes me want to cry just reading it.  So sorry. :(
    Same here. I am so sorry for what happened there.
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    August '10-June '11 TTA for hip surgeries
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    2 rounds of Clomid (50 mg) = BFNs...October SIS & 2nd HSG all clear
    Plan after saving: repeat s/a + Clomid + Novarel + IUI
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