TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Hi ladies - may I join you?

Hello all - I've been lurking the last few days and have finally decided to jump right in.  We may be starting medicated cycles soon and I figured now is as good as time as any.  Here's my story:

Started ttc 8/10
1st cycle 29 days (O on cd19), bfn
2nd cycle (O on cd18), bfp early Nov
MM/C end of Dec (12w)
D&C 2 days later

This entire year I've had 3 periods.  My cycles are as follows:
1st cycle post loss - 77 days
2nd cycle post loss - 63 days
3rd  - 72 days
now on 4th - cd43 and yet to O

DX with postpartum thyroiditis in March/April, thyroid back to normal levels in May (and all through summer).  I've also recently started a gluten free diet b/c my doc thinks I may be gluten intolerant (not sure that has anything to do w/ anything, but who knows?)

Went to OB few months ago, she thought it was my thyroid causing irregular cycles.  It's been normal since May, so it seems like that's not the cause.  I've had bloodwork done a few times this year to check for abnormal hormone levels and it's all came back normal (I have no idea what all was tested and it was done late into my cycle, so not any specific cd or anything).

My doc mentioned that she'd want to start Metformin in Sept if things hadn't balanced out.  I'm going in for my annual on Thursday and plan to discuss the way forward.  I'm pretty nervous about it, and not sure what all to even ask.  I don't know if I should stick with my OB or ask for an RE referral. 

Anyways, I look forward to getting to know you all.   Thanks for reading.  If you made it this far, you deserve a treat:

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BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
My Ovulation Chart
3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi

Re: Hi ladies - may I join you?

  • Welcome to the board. I'm very sorry for your loss.

    Your story sounds exactly like mine! Semi regular cycles before and then after your m/c everything goes to hell :p I hope your Dr. can give you some answers and a solution to get you on your way to your take home baby. GL to you!

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    Welcome to the board. I'm very sorry for your loss.

    Your story sounds exactly like mine! Semi regular cycles before and then after your m/c everything goes to hell :p I hope your Dr. can give you some answers and a solution to get you on your way to your take home baby. GL to you!

    Thank you!  How are you liking Clomid?  Are you seeing an RE for it or a regular OB?  GL to you too!

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    Trying to start our family since 2010
    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
    My Ovulation Chart
    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
    "Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi
  • Welcome to the board!

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  • Welcome to the board.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I was also with my OB for awhile when I was TTC...but I was happy when I decided to go with an RE instead. They were more familiar with what types of tests to run and found things that my OB never even tested.  I hope you get some answers soon.
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    Welcome to the board.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I was also with my OB for awhile when I was TTC...but I was happy when I decided to go with an RE instead. They were more familiar with what types of tests to run and found things that my OB never even tested.  I hope you get some answers soon.

    Thanks  - I'm seriously considering an RE.  I feel like I haven't had very thorough testing so far.  It just seems like a big scary step...

    PGAL/PAL welcome
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    Trying to start our family since 2010
    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
    My Ovulation Chart
    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
    "Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi
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    imageliesam:

    Welcome to the board. I'm very sorry for your loss.

    Your story sounds exactly like mine! Semi regular cycles before and then after your m/c everything goes to hell :p I hope your Dr. can give you some answers and a solution to get you on your way to your take home baby. GL to you!

    Thank you!  How are you liking Clomid?  Are you seeing an RE for it or a regular OB?  GL to you too!

    I'm actually having a really good experience with the Clomid. First cycle I actually ovulated which was nice considering I hadn't on my own in almost a year. Also, the side effects haven't been as awful as I thought they would be. I'm seeing a regular OB, but if we don't have success with just the clomid, they will refer me to an RE.

  • Welcome. I'm sorry you have to be here. I would suggest seeing a RE as soon as possible. I felt like I was jumping the gun with my request but I have been so thankful that I did it. It can seem like a scary step, but I have gotten a lot of peace and comfort out of knowing I'm doing everything I can.
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    BFP #2 Medicated cycle, twin boys born 4/4/12 at 29w4d
    BFP #3 EDD 8/8/14, D&C for missed miscarriage at 8w, baby boy with triploidy
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  • Welcome. I hope you're able to come up with a good plan tomorrow!
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  • Thank you all so much for the warm welcome and advice!

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    Trying to start our family since 2010
    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
    My Ovulation Chart
    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
    "Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi
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    1st   BFP | EDD 10/23/10 | Natural M/C 03/27/10 | 10w 0d
    2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
    5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
    7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
    8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

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  • I'm sorry for your loss but welcome to the board.

    I was so happy I moved on to an RE b/c your OB is great once you are pregnant, but not necesasarily the best at getting you pregnant.

    TTC since 5/2010
    DX with Diminished Ovarian Reserve - AMH of 1.1 - 7/2011; AMH of .42 8/2012
    BFP 9/1/10-M/C confirmed 9/8/10-Methotrexate 10/6/10
    IUI #1 (w/clomid)-9/5/11-BFN ; IUI #2 (w/clomid)-10/5/11 - BFP - 11/1/12-No sac seen; 11/2/11 and 11/9/11-Methotrexate 
    IVF #1- ER 2/2; ET 2/5;-Two 8 cell embryos transfered = BFFN
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    U/S on 6/8/12 - H/B at 128 BPM; U/S on 6/14/12 @ 9wks-No H/B-D&C on 6/17/12
    IVF 2.0- ER 10/17; ET 10/20-One 12 cell, one 10 cell and one 8 cell embryo transfered
    BFP!   11/16/12 U/S- Two nuggets with perfect heartbeats! EDD 7/10/13

     

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  • I hope the new meds help you out!  We started TTC the same month it appears.  I'm sorry you're here though, like you said in my intro- I hope we move to pGal soon!

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