Any tips for getting your baby to sleep at naptime? My baby girl is 3 weeks old and she sleeps great at night. For naps, though, she wants to be held the entire time. When I lay her down, she'll sleep for about 15-20 minutes and then wake up. When I hold her during the naps, she sleeps for about 2 hours or more (today was 3 1/2 hours!).
Is she just too young to lay down for a nap? Do I need to keep holding her and then try to lay her down when she's about 6-8 weeks?
Any recommendations/suggestions/tips are greatly appreciated!
Thanks!
Re: Nap Time Tips
Are you swaddling her? Is she warm enough?
We were the opposite. Sydney didn't sleep all night until about six weeks. Before that, she snoozed on and off all day in between feedings. Holding her is so important, but so is getting YOUR rest and getting, well, anything else done. If she doesn't like the swaddle, maybe you could roll up blankets on either side of her so she feels like she is up against something. That helped my DD not feel lost in the crib or basinette.
Oh! Also... do you have a swing? Sydney loved sleeping in the swing during the day.
Swaddle. Swaddle. Swaddle. Worked great for us for the first couple months. Then LO turned into a bad (really bad) napper. Lots of 20 minute naps - no rest for mama. He did really well at night, but was a napping diaster. Somewhere around 7 months he started getting better at napping. I still don't have that ideal of two long naps and one short one, but he is definitely better at napping. Still awesome at night. Good luck.
DD -- 5YO
DS -- 3YO
Ditto to the Ergo...so much more comfortable than just holding or carrying lo! Don't ask how many carriers I've had...I had great success with the Ergo. Try swaddling (mine were haters of the swaddle), the swing, the bouncy seat (the ones that vibrate are fantastic).
I found with three of my girls that they just wanted to sleep on me for daytime naps, so I went with it. That seemed to ease up about 12 weeks old, and I started trying them in their crib. It takes a little bit, but you will find the combo that works for your lo. 3 weeks is still pretty early. And they don't stay that little for long, enjoy it!
Swaddling & the swing worked great for us too, though she did take quite a few naps in my arms, which I loved (and still do when they happen). Right before she hit the 3-month mark, my LO decided she didn't like the swaddle anymore, so a lot of her really good naps were in the swing & the bouncer.
My LO started daycare last week & we're finding out she's just not much of a napper. She'll take anywhere from 2-3 naps while there, ranging anywhere from 20-40 mins. I kind of think that might change soon & maybe she'll take longer naps just because everyone else is doing it--probably one of the few times I'll want her to do that, lol.
It seemed like once she started STTN, she just wasn't much of a napper & that was before she started daycare. It is rough because it's hard to get those things done that you put off until naptime, but I don't know if I can really complain. She goes to sleep between 7:30 & 8 PM she STTN until about 6 AM the next morning.