Pregnant after a Loss

I'm sure it's fine but ......

but my bewbs don't feel as sore this morning and I know symptoms can come and go a bit, but it's a tad freaking me out.  They weren't SUPER sore to begin with but tender/sore and this morning, not so much unless I move them around alot.   And my tummy doesn't feel as yucky today.   My appt. for 8wk is tomorrow, but I just need to get through today.  I started feeling my symptoms on and off last time around 10-11wk and found out at 12 we had lost LO at 9wk so my brain is freaking  AND on top of this, I had a dream that I spotted last night.  Sad   I just want to fast forward today!!
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  • I know it is so hard..symptoms come and go remember that...and FWIW I hardly had any symptoms the whole pregnancy {{{HUGS}}
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  • I agree with Jen about symptoms coming and going, but you already knew that.  FWIW, with my DS my symptoms disappeared at 8w and I have a healthy 5 y/o now.  Try to hang in there, I know it is hard.
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  • I know what you mean! I was so nervous too when I wasn't as sick or sore. I found that my symptoms would come in clusters, so I would have several good days in a row and then several bad.

    It is nerve-racking I know. I know some women that never get any pregnancy symptoms or theirs go away early, so it doesnt mean too much. Consider yourself lucky :)

     

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  • The same thing happened to me this time right around 8 weeks!  My boobs get a little more tender right at bed time and I notice they feel swollen when I get up 10 times a night to pee, but by morning it's gone.  No need to worry over it....my sister said hers completely stopped hurting at 7 weeks w/ both of her pregnancies.  Smile

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  • Try to hang in there! The presence/absence of symptoms has no bearing on whether it's a healthy pregnancy or not. FWIW, my boobs didn't start to hurt until about 9 weeks, and then they were pure agony until about 17 weeks. 
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  • Hang in there, tomorrow is literally right around the corner!  I didn't really have strong symptoms, but I do know that I was beginning to feel better already (food/eating) right around 8 weeks, and here I am 31 weeks pregnant today.  The first trimester definitely ranks as the most worrisome for me, I can understand and completely sympathize for you in this situation.  (((hugs)))
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  • Thanks so much ladies! I know things are probably fine, but it's the PgAL head that gets to me.  Thank you for the reassurance and I'm sure I'll feel better after tomorrow's appt.  (which I'll update on)  ((hugs)) back gals. 

    Plus it probably doesn't help we are leaving for DH's family reunion next week (camp trip but they have townhouses by the lake) right at 9wk for 6 days, so I think my anxiety is higher due to that too and we'll be an hour or so away from any hospital.   Ok maybe if I could fast forward to 13wk  Smile and be out of 1st Tri. 

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  • I know exactly how you feel, my sympotoms have been doing the same thing! It is so easy to let your thoughts run wild! I'm sure everything is fine and your appt will go great tomorrow!! Wishing you all the best :)
  • Try and hang in there. My girls didn't really even start hurting until about 8 weeks or so. Once they did I would have days where they hurst like crazy and days where they barely hurt at all. I know it's really easy to get freaked out but as PP have said symptoms come and go. GL
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  • I know it is so hard. You will make it through today and get the reassurance you need at your appointment tomorrow. T&Ps that LO has been growing like crazy! 
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  • There has been a lot of time when mine arent sore at all. It really does come and go. Maybe do something for yourself to keep your mind off stuff for the rest of the day. GL at your appt tomorrow.

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  • ((Huge HUGS)) buddy!  Symptoms come and go, especially at that stage.  I'm sending lots of T&Ps that your appointment goes perfectly tomorrow. 
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  • ((HUGS)) Symptoms definitely come and go. I was constantly mashing on my boobs between 7-9 weeks b/c they changed all the time. The only thing that helped with some of my anxiety over symptoms was my doppler. It kept me sane when my m/s vanished at 9.5wks... later it came back stronger than before!
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  • Hope today flies by for you! GL at your appt tomorrow. 
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  • I TOTALLY know how you feel!  My boobs are less sore today too...the last few days they have hurt if you just look at them the wrong way, but today I'd say they aren't bad at all.  I'm freaking out because the last time my symptoms started to vanish, I had a m/c about a week later.  I am trying to remember what a wise person on this board said to me a few days ago.  This pregnancy is not your last pregnancy.  Your last pregnancy has no bearing on this one.  So try to keep that in mind and I'm sure everything will go wonderfully tomorrow!
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  • It is so hard not to get down over things like that. Big hugs and prayers your way. Stay strong


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  • I was freaking out about this yesterday.  My breasts stopped hurting completely for almost the whole day...and then this morning....yowza!!  Back to them hurting..then fine again this afternoon.

    The wonderful ladies on here told me the same thing they are telling you...and lol, now I believe them (and my doctor...and my mother...and other friends who have been pregnant).  Lol...it's going to be a rollercoaster ride, but at least we're on it, right?

     Congrats on  your pregnancy and best of luck to you tomorrow at your appointment!!

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  • I hope you have a good appointment tomorrow and get some reassurance. I'm having a similar on/off symptom thing right now too like PP have said.  I'm just trying to keep busy and not get too anxious about it.  
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