I really, really, HATE when someone asks...

Re: I really, really, HATE when someone asks...

• MaybeMore

  September 2011

  I say, "When my babies stop all dying." 

  People ask less now that I have two, though.
  

  
  
  TTC since 6/02 (age 22) K/U instantly despite no AF for 5 months--preemie baby boy 1/03
  M/C 11/04 - M/C 05 - M/C 06 - BFP 2/08--fullterm baby girl 10/08 - M/C 4/11 - went to RE at age 31
  DX: crappy quality & infrequent ovulation, mild MFI
  Stimmed cycle #1 C/P 7/11 - Stimmed cycle #2 C/P 8/11 - Stimmed cycle #4 C/P 10/11
  On Stimmed Cycle #5
  Always thought I'd be a "mom of many"--now just hoping to be a "mom of one or two more!"

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• beth&anth

  September 2011

  I hate it too.  I don't give a sh!t anymore and just tell them "we had a really hard time getting preg with DD.  We are trying but we are blessed to have her."  But yes, it brings up a ton of emotions.  . 
  

  
  

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• Melis-n-Mike member

  September 2011

  beth&anth:

  I hate it too.  I don't give a sh!t anymore and just tell them "we had a really hard time getting preg with DD.  We are trying but we are blessed to have her."  But yes, it brings up a ton of emotions.  . 
  

  This exactly!!

  

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• TamTam624

  September 2011

  I am with you on this, plus I just do not get why people ask that question at all. I mean if you dont have a child they ask when are you having kids, if you have a child they say when are you having another or when are you going to make so and so a big brother or sister.

  I have responded to some when you pay for all our treatments and the LOs expenses.

   

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