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If your baby is not sttn

especially if you cosleep, read this

https://www.drjen4kids.com/soap%20box/sleep%20stuff.htm

I found it kind of encouraging (but kind of depressing...). No magic bullet, but it helped me anyway.

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    Thanks for posting that. I am a proud Nsttn, safely bed sharing, baby wearing, breastfeeding, crunchy mom.


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    Thank you for posting this!  I've made peace with the fact that he is not sttn. I've made peace with the fact that I have to rock/walk him to sleep most nights. I have made peace with the fact that I get unwanted advise when people hear we snuggle in bed for at least one nap a day. I have made peace with the fact that my child is different from any other child out there, and that I must do what works for him. Do I want to sleep 12 hrs on the weekends like I did pre-baby? Sure, but I feel much better knowing I'm parenting my LO my style, and I have a healthy, happy baby during the day, even in the middle of the night!  
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    imagemeimsx:
    Thanks for posting that. I am a proud Nsttn, safely bed sharing, baby wearing, breastfeeding, crunchy mom.

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    Thanks for sharing, I want to print this and hand it out to everyone who asks me
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    imagemsdonnas:
    Thanks for sharing, I want to print this and hand it out to everyone who asks me

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    Thanks for sharing. I can't say that I was feeling bad about my son's sleeping habits but it's always nice to have some positive validation. 

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    Thanks for sharing this.  I am not happy with DD's sleeping, mostly because it doesn't seem restful to her and it's hard on me getting up so many times a night, but putting it in biological perspective helps.  And now I won't feel bad about our 2-hour snuggle sleep in the early morning (done with every precaution necessary).
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    Emailed this to my mother, who blames LO's "sleep problem" on co-sleeping. Hmm

    Thank you.

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    Thanks Token! I posted on my facebook so that FIL can read and tell MIL to stop telling me I need to give LO rice cereal so he will STTN! Not like it will work, but I can hope!

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    I appreciate this after my lack of sleep last night!

     

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    Glad to give some fellow moms a boost. I really would rather be sleeping 8 or 10 hours straight, believe me, but being as I really don't think my baby is broken, it helps to have some encouragement to just deal.
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    Wow, interesting read. Thanks Smile
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    Thanks for this. 

    I've read something similar when Ankaret was a newborn and it helped me get though her first year. 

    I'll have to post this up on Google+ for my SIL.  She's due with her first in October and gave me the side eye when A wasn't STTN at 6 months.

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    My baby doesn't STTN yet but she's sleeping a little more now. Thanks for posting this. My DH's dumb friend suggested the other day that maybe something was wrong with our DD because she wasn't sleeping through the nite. I just smiled and told him my daughter is perfectly fine. 
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    Yes TY

    I dont mind waking up often anyway.... LO and I wake up at the same time OFTEN :)

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