I'm sorry- I am having issues using Elfster, it wont let me login under the original email address I had sent you. It let me accept the invite, but thats it.
Can you send me a request to join under a different email, and possibly delete that one?
I'm sorry to be a pain :-(
Re: Brittday
Mine is doing the same thing. I think it is just elfster.
I would try leaving the site, going back to it and logging in without going to the gift exchange. It let me log in that way but wouldn't let me for the gift exchange.
Ive used it before, under my maiden name for a family exchange, and i was trying to change that. it wouldnt let me login. I wondered if it was just me.
So I tried to make a new account- and it is freezing. Maybe it is just not me though.