Success after IF

Dear DW,

I would just like to give you a shout out and say thank you for your support.  You're one of the few people one this board (and this isn't a dig to anyone else AT ALL) who takes notice when others quietly mention personal problems.  

For me it's been a roller coaster year with my DH's health, you were always a supporter/cheerleader and willing to read a vent.  My DH had what some might consider an unbelievable year health wise because I can tell you I sure as shiz didn't believe it when I thought my 28 year old healthy active (just road 50 miles on his bicycle last week) husband was laying in a hospital bed dying before my eyes.  I didn't post about it much but I did quietly mention it occasionally and you always took notice.

There have been many other times I have received your unsolicited love and support.  And I would really honestly like to thank for that.  Thank you for your opinions to my personal FB inbox questions.  And everything else.

I've never once doubted your story and have no reason to.  I guess I would be considered a "follower" (although I haven't drank an kool-aid or anything I'm not sure if that's a requirement), but I'm a "follower" because you've been a "follower" of mine, and I truly appreciate it.

If you have ever lied about any part of your story (which I don't think that you have), honestly it wouldn't really effect me at all, and it wouldn't change the fact that you've been a support when I needed it.

Much love,

KYRN 

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Re: Dear DW,

  • you're very sweet to tell me this.
    Thank you.
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  • I second this post....Davez you have also been nothing but a support to me too!
    Severe MFI resulting in IVF/ICSI #1 in Nov 2007. BFP!!
    Our beautiful son was born July 2008.
    2010: 2 IVF's,1 FET = 2 BFN's, 1 c/p :(
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  • I'm mostly a lurker, but I think Davez has a huge heart and is always trying to help. I really don't understand the hate and paranoia. Seemingly it's from long ago... time to move on. I'd be in trouble if I was still judged for things I did years ago. I really hate to see such mean spirited posts. Davez, i wish you all the luck with your latest pregnancy and I hope you don't let this crap damper your happiness.
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  • imageDavezWife:
    you're very sweet to tell me this.
    Thank you.

    Well I meant it!  And it's the truth, you've been a supporter of mine so I always try to return the favor. 

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  • I am just catching up on everything and I agree.  Your support on this board is so strong and I am sorry this has happened.  I am not as active of a poster as a lot of the ladies here but I have never once got the impression you were faking things.  You have been nothing but kind to me, thank you.  I am really rooting for you and this pregnancy Davez!!

    Dx: PCOS/Amenorrhea/Anovulatory/lining problems. Clomid = BFN's. Lots of cancelled cycles due to thin lining or cysts. IUI#1= Follistim, estrace and endometrin = BFN IUI#2= Repronex, follistim, viagra suppositories and endometrin= BFN. IUI#3= Repronex, follistim, viagra suppositories, femtrace and endometrin= BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Isabella born in June via C-section!!!!! She is so incredible! Went back to RE to TTC#2 and got a WONDERFUL surprise!! Baby #2 on their way!! My Beautiful son Liam born Feb, 2011!! Lilypie image Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • I agree. I have always appreciated the support you provide to me (and everyone) on the board.
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  • I of course agree about Davez. :) While I HATE that either one of us have so much in common with the *** luck department, I am glad to have had such an amazingly strong & determined momma to partner with over the years.

    I just responded again in that ridiculous OP but I'll say it here...This board is way bigger & better than that lame and uncalled for crap that took place. I have and have never had anything against M$B, she has always been supportive, but that POST had no place here and as far as I'm concerned, it is not welcome here.This kind of crap happens ALL the time on other boards, you don't see the kind of comraderie and kindness that we have here anywhere else. It's no secret that many of us dislike many others, but normally that dislike is put into perspective and handled maturely while still being able to show support to someone, even if you can't stand them.

    It makes me sad how all that mean spirited crap exists in the same place where we all rally, pray & support those of us who have lost children, or precious, incredibly strong little girls like Kate or when one of our marriages seems to be on the brink of devastation. Popularity contests/bullying are for high school girls and that's exactly what the OP was, not an attempt to "protect" (from what, exactly??) board members or even to express an opinion. 

     

     

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  • imagenaflmj:
    I agree. I have always appreciated the support you provide to me (and everyone) on the board.

    ditto!

    and I feel very badly and somewhat responsible for the whole triplet thing that seemed to have set off M$B. You never said triplets and I hyped it up with hope..well cause if 3 stuck, I would like to hope for the best. But it was clear you were not saying trips but really hoped that at least one made it. I am so sorry.

  • Esthy, you hush your mouth. You did not hold the puppet strings on Brooke (:::holding my mouth shut::::). 

    HOPE is about the one thing that's gotten me thru these years of hell. I've become an extreme realist in the process, and kinda figured the "miracle" of this round is the healthy lil' cricket doing well. If there's one (or more!) surprises in this game, so be it. But I'm good.  If she posted what she did because of your (adorable) "hype", well... I'm back to rolling my eyes some more, I guess. lol.

    But it's VERY sweet of you to apologize, even though you had no need to.

     

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  • Love this post, couldn't agree more.
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  • Just sending you some big ((hugs)), Davez. I'm just catching up on last night's drama now so won't post on the OP, but I know you are for realz. And that the last thing you need right now is something to stress about.
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  • I could not have said this better.  D always gives me pats on the back when I need it most.  Great advice and just a "eff the world" when it's appropriate.  Love you, D. 
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