My MIL hosted our first shower this past weekend. I was worried because she was soooo late sending invitations (and some didn't even get sent apparently, but I tried not to stress about it). She ended up not sending one to my husband's stepmom even though the rest of his family were invited...and it kind of upset her, so that was the only snafu other than my husband's brothers were in charge of decorations, so that was...interesting/nonexistant. haha
But we ended up having a pretty good turnout, didn't play games (like I wanted) and got some pretty good stuff (even some things from our registry and not too many clothes or diapers, like I expected). I also didn't cry like I feared since it's becoming so "real" now -- I was a little confused about some of the gifts, though, but we all got a good laugh about it. So overall, I guess it went pretty ok, which I was excited about.
My family's shower is next weekend, and I hope it turns out ok too. Good luck to the rest of you -- I know I have heard some horror stories, so that has made me nervous!
Re: First shower went...ok
My fear is getting clothes. I have enough for 2 babies already.
I hope no one buys me disposable diapers because I'm cloth diapering lol.
Otherwise, I'm extremely thankful of whatever anyone gets me.