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It's Official

rab2006rab2006 member
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Had my ultrasound and the doctor said I probably miscarried about a week or two ago (I would have been 5 weeks and 5 days today) so it was very very early on, and am just starting to bleed now. I do have to say, that I actually feel at peace now that I have the diagnosis... the last 24 hours have been horrible with the ups and downs of knowing in my heart this happened and keeping hope. I think the worst part for me right now is knowing how disappointed my husband is. I'm sure my feelings will change as things sink in a little more and time goes on. Thankfully, he said that it had to have happened so early that I shouldn't need to do anything except wait for this bleeding to stop (so no D&C) and then give it another month and we can start trying again if we'd like. I do hope the bleeding doesn't last too terribly long to sit as a constant reminder, though.
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  • illinigalillinigal member
    Hugs.  I'm sorry for your loss.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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  • orangegogglesorangegoggles member

    imagerab2006:
    Had my ultrasound and the doctor said I probably miscarried about a week or two ago (I would have been 5 weeks and 5 days today) so it was very very early on, and am just starting to bleed now. I do have to say, that I actually feel at peace now that I have the diagnosis... the last 24 hours have been horrible with the ups and downs of knowing in my heart this happened and keeping hope. I think the worst part for me right now is knowing how disappointed my husband is. I'm sure my feelings will change as things sink in a little more and time goes on. Thankfully, he said that it had to have happened so early that I shouldn't need to do anything except wait for this bleeding to stop (so no D&C) and then give it another month and we can start trying again if we'd like. I do hope the bleeding doesn't last too terribly long to sit as a constant reminder, though.

    I felt the same way. My husband has been so strong but I know he was just as heartbroken as I was.

    I'm so sorry for your loss :(

    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    BFP #1 6.19.11 ~ EDD 2.23.12 ~ CP on 6.22.11
    BFP #2 7.23.11 ~ EDD 3.28.12 ~ MC on 8.16.11
    BFP #3 11.17.11~ EDD 7.31.12 ~ MC on 1.18.12
    BFP #4 4.12.12 ~ EDD 12.25.12~ Born on 12.26.12
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    So sorry to hear this :(  Unfortunately, I've been there too.  You're going to have good days and bad days from here on out.  Just remember that you didn't do anything wrong!  Tons of hugs to you and your hubby!!
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  • GracieBlueGracieBlue member
    I am sorry for your loss ((hugs))
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    BFP #1 7/22/11 - EDD 4/2/11 - M/C 8/15/11 (7w0d)
    BFP #2 9/23/11 - EDD 6/5/12 ♥It's a Girl♥
    BFP #3 2/20/13 - EDD 11/2/13 ♥It's a Girl♥
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