I'm starting my nanny search and am curious if you made it a mandetory to have experience with multiples. Also, any questions that you can think of I need to ask that are specifically related to multiples?
I've never had a nanny, but I've also never had multiples before now either and it's working. So I would say excluding a well qualified nanny just because she doesn't have multiple experience could be mean your missing out on your perfect nanny. HTH
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I put it as required, I think. And I did find the perfect nanny with experience. However, I would've taken someone that didn't have it, but had plenty of infant experience. The way I saw it was that someone with ANY experience had more experience than I did at the time! :-) Just go with your gut once you start interviewing. GL!
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We did not require multiples experience, and we found the most amazing, wonderful, perfect nanny that I treasure. She could not be more capable (sometime I feel like even more so than me) at taking care of multiples and my kids adore her.
I agree with PP - absolutely go with your gut. And check every single reference. Good luck.
You know I tried interviewing people that have had experience with more than one young child and it just didn't work for me. Especially when they were 3 months old but when they were 13 months old as well. We interviewed one girl who actually asked me how you feed 2 at one time...and that just wasn't going to cut it for me. I am sure she would have figured it out in time, but really I needed peace in my mind and heart when I went back to work. I needed someone who knew what they were doing and that I didn't have to worry. My nanny had a lot of twin experience and thank god because she taught me so much in those first few months. She really saved me. I would say if you find a candidate who you think you might like but doesn't have twin experience...talk to her and perhaps meet with her. I gave it a shot but it just didn't work for me. I preferred multiple experience. Good luck1
I thought it would have been necessary but it hasn't been. The two most wonderful people that have helped us out with our kids have not had any multiples experience.
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I've never had a nanny, but I've also never had multiples before now either and it's working. So I would say excluding a well qualified nanny just because she doesn't have multiple experience could be mean your missing out on your perfect nanny. HTH
We did not require multiples experience, and we found the most amazing, wonderful, perfect nanny that I treasure. She could not be more capable (sometime I feel like even more so than me) at taking care of multiples and my kids adore her.
I agree with PP - absolutely go with your gut. And check every single reference.
Good luck.