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What would you/ did you want for your 40th birthday?

DH and I were talking about this last night... not entirely sure why... I think it came up because we reminiscing about the surprise 40th I  threw for my DH...

So he asked me what I would want.

he threw me a surprise party for my 30th, so I don't think I really want that.

What would you want?  

a trip?

jewlery?

 

Just curious.   

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  • ...please don't hate me... but I'll answer for what I want for my 30th : )  Sorry - again - don't hate me : )

    But I want a nice watch.  I have only ever had decorative/fun watches.  I want a quality piece of jewelry (think, Rolex, Cartier, Yurman) that I will keep forever.

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  • A trip with friends sounds like fun. Cruise perhaps.
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    ...please don't hate me... but I'll answer for what I want for my 30th : )  Sorry - again - don't hate me : )

    But I want a nice watch.  I have only ever had decorative/fun watches.  I want a quality piece of jewelry (think, Rolex, Cartier, Yurman) that I will keep forever.

    I could never hate YOU! ;) 

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  • I'd love another trip alone with DH - even just 2 nights away together. We just took our first trip alone since having kids and it was so great... i have 2 more years until 40 - so i'm thinking that's what I'd like.
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  • NO idea.  I think probably a piece of jewelry b/c it feels meaningful and somewhat permanent in that I could wear it forever (I did receive a really nice watch for my 30th birthday just recently and I adore it).  MH has said he wants a "toy car" (basically a sports car) for his 40th.  Not sure if that will actually happen for him (we have awhile to go so who knows!).  

     

    I'd rather do trips as anniversary presents so that we each receive something we really want for our birthdays (plus, we also have vacations/weekends away already...I can't imagine taking many more away from our kids than we alread do).

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  • Maybe you should change the subject to "what would/DID you want..."  :)

    DH created a wine cellar for me by asking everyone who is special to me to contribute a bottle with a special message, then he made up the difference to total 40 bottles.  It was very cool and touching and the best gift I could possibly imagine!  This was about 1 week before I had Cal, so we couldn't celebrate the way I had hoped, but he more than made up for it!
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  • Well, for my soon to be milestone birthday I asked for a sapphire eternity band (my birthstone) to go with my wedding band and antique engagement ring. We will see if the bday Gods have heard my wish :). Maybe a nice quality peice of jewelry? I agree with LVB-a good watch will last forever, same with a quality birthstone peice.

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  • Provided I have gotten my body to a good place, I would LOVE a tummy tuck!! If not, a nice Vacay on a beach somewhere.  Not a cruise, but somewhere to lay around and drink!! even for like 5 days!
  • I want a trip that doesn't involve visiting family :)

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    Maybe you should change the subject to "what would/DID you want..."  :)

    DH created a wine cellar for me by asking everyone who is special to me to contribute a bottle with a special message, then he made up the difference to total 40 bottles.  It was very cool and touching and the best gift I could possibly imagine!  This was about 1 week before I had Cal, so we couldn't celebrate the way I had hoped, but he more than made up for it!

    You are RIGHT!  My apologies! :) 

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  • Well I am turning 40 in November and my dream gift would be a day at a spa. Massage, pedi and perhaps a facial. Dinner and drinks with the hubs and the ability to sleep past 7 the next morning. ETA: I am really not in the mood for "celebrating the big 4-0" so the more low key the better.
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  • I would want a weekend spa vacation for my 40th.

    I wanted a trip to vegas for my 30th, but we bought our house a couple months before my birthday, so we ripped out the carpeting in our living room on my birthday... not very exciting. 

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    I would LOVE a tummy tuck!!!

    Ack.  If you love pain, then this is a great gift ; ) 

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  • I wanted and got a cruise to the bahamas
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  • For my 30th I would love either a romantic, relaxing vacation or a pair of diamond studs.  I dont need a party, I see the people that are most important all the time anyway.
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  • I'd love a trip! And I'd get a price of jewelry as a souvenir... And drink a lotof wine onthe trip ;). Gimme gimme gimme!!
  • I want a trip.  I did Aruba for my 30th.  I would like to go back. 

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  • I got a trip--five days at my ILs for my DH's 20 year high school reunion. :o/

    (No, I'm not bitter in the least.)(To be fair, my birthdays aren't usually a big deal to me, but for a milestone like this, *something* would have been appreciated.)
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  • I agree w pp abt jewelry/watch something timeless classic and never go out of style. I am also dying to go to Two places Anguilla and Italy.. Sans children of course!
  • A trip, maybe to Vegas, or Mexico if it was in the budget. If not, then a nice long spa day with a nice dinner.
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  • Ive always wanted to go to a spa resort in Arizona!
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  • I decided on a nice, long weekend to a place we really enjoy.  We stayed at a better place than we usually do there and got a fantastic suite.  It was great.  And then he surprised me with a watch I always wanted.

    It was "just" a diamond Movado. We're not in the Rolex league. LOL!  (I would love to see it if you get it!!!!)

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  • I wanted a trip. We went to Savannah
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