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November 2011 Moms
NBR- Vent Crazy Story
Saturday morning DH got a text from one of his friends. This is how the text went: Friend "I have a questions to ask you" DH "ask away" Friend "my girlfriend is interested" DH "elaborate" Friend "she wants to F*** you" DH "I am flattered but I am a one woman man"
Seriously, I thought stuff like this only happened in movies. It is taking all of my strength not to find this girl on FB and send her a message (I have never met her but I know her boyfriend). DH doesn't hang out with the boyfriend on a regular basis, he maybes sees him once a year but he was over there last weekend buying a truck from him and that is where the girlfriend met him.
I understand this maybe their lifestyle but it is definitely not ours. Maybe she should have gathered some facts before approaching a happily married man and pissing off his 7 month pregnant wife.
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Re: NBR- Vent Crazy Story
Bleh gross. Not my thing either and I don't understand people that are into that.
That being said I think you have kept yourself pretty composed so far (NOT finding her on FB,etc). You're the better person who isn't trying to go after someone's husband while the person's pregnant. She's just a creep. Sounds like your DH has a good head on his shoulders by not getting overly worked up about it either.
WHAT?! OK, call me conservative but that is ...well, i can't even come up with an extreme enough word - UNBELIEVABLY ABSURD! I am a passivist, but these pregnancy hormones would probably make me want to punch her. lollol
Also, I've never done anything like this, but drastic times call for drastic measures...this might be extreme, but I'd probably attempt to ban my DH from that friend lol - or call that friend and tell him what for. I mean, what kind of friend has the nerve to call a married man with a pregga wife and test the waters for a sexual escapade?
omgosh i'm sorry, my preggy hormones are manifesting on your life!!! How bad am i! hahaa
Yes, mama & baby you are totally right - take the high road! Don't let the hormones get to you!!
Wow, you are handling this a lot better than I would!
I would have a bigger problem with the "friend" who sent the messages, not the girl. THE SO-CALLED FRIEND is the one who made the offer.
And I would be UBER SUPER PISSED if my DH just responded that he was flattered. It should be his place to tell the "friend" that those kinds of messages are disrespectful to you and to your marriage. Seriously.
DMoney will be a kickass big sister
Like I said it was taking all my might not to say/do anything. I am just glad that DH and I have the type of relationship where we don't hide things from each other. He could have easily not told me or showed me the conversation and brushed it off.
DH said he was uncomfortable with the whole thing and didn't want to continue talking to this person. As for me being mad about DH saying he was flattered, I think it was his way of diffusing the situation, he is not a confrontational person.
This couple is engaged and has a child together, I don't see them lasting very long if this is the type of relationship they have.
THIS. I get that maybe your H is trying to keep things civil but this just leads them to believe it's okay to ask intrusive questions like that. I would have preferred a "oh hell no" from my H lol. He knows when something is wrong and when to tell them what is up.
Is there a possibility that this guy suspects his wife of cheating and possibly with one of his friends, and he is just going thru the contact list seeing who will bite so he can catch them?
With a txt message who knows what the real reason is he said that? I doubt he ever would have called on the phone and seriously asked that question - too weird!
Call me old fashioned but what happened to fidelity in marriage??????I understand that there are people out there that like that sort of thing, but is there relationship and marriage really worth anything? How can you have your cake and eat it too? If you choose to be in a relationship with someone, you can't have something on the side.
I'm glad your DH declined and was honest with you. I would freak out if my DH continued talking to that jacka$$. If I were the friend, I'd be upset that my girlfriend wants to jump someone else...I mean what does that say about the boyfriend's lovemaking skills???I just can't understand what happened to the world's morals and values these days.
Was the other girl even serious? Sometimes people say things they don't actually mean without doing any thinking.
At least when one girl offered to "prepare" my then-boyfriend for our wedding night she had the balls to speak for herself (not going to talk about this...it was years ago and is now a non-issue).
I'm curious as to whether or not she actually wanted that statement to reach his ears. This guy could be in hot water several times over.