my husband had the big V on Friday and I'm sad

Re: my husband had the big V on Friday and I'm sad

• muddin_lil_sis member

  August 2011

  DH and I are talking about him having one done soon. Part of me doesn't want anymore children, but part of me does.

  

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• amandabrooke81

  August 2011

  DH is almost 10 yrs older than me; his decision about a V was based on what life will be like 20 yrs down the road. I'm on board with the V since we already have 2, but there's a big part of me that's sad thinking that it was the last pregnancy & the last baby...

  He hasn't scheduled the V-day yet but it will be before the end of the year... 

  
  
  
  
  
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• jazzyag

  August 2011

  muddin_lil_sis:

  DH and I are talking about him having one done soon. Part of me doesn't want anymore children, but part of me does.

  Exactly this
  

  Children should be seen, and heard, and believed.

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• iris427 member

  August 2011

  My husband really wants to have it done.  It sounds great to never have to deal with BC again, but I feel sad just thinking about it.  

  
  

  
  

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• Lisa Frank member

  August 2011

  My husband is having his surgery in October. We've talked extensively about it, and I'm right on board. But yeah, I still have those moments, especially now that Cece has hit the 3 month mark.
  

  
  
  
  

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• breezy79 member

  August 2011

  my DH is 10 years older than me and that is a big reason for the decision we made.
  I know 100% that we did the right thing but there is a tiny part of me that is really sad

  A huge part of that is because DD is growing up SOOOO FAST!!

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