We're not quite enlisted yet, still in the process. But I'm wondering if the money situation is as bad as some people say it is. It seems to me like we'll be doing better than we are now, so I'm kind of wondering if we'll really need to tighten our belts or not.
Anyone?
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Married 11/27/09 and TTC right away
Dx: Complete septate uterus with cervical duplication, endometrial polyps, PCOS, endometriosis, hypo thyroid, luteal phase defect
4 uterus surgeries to correct my complete septum and to remove polyps and 2 years of seeing the RE, medicated cycles and IUIs
Baby 1 and 2: BFP 3/3/11 with 2 babies EDD 11/1/11, M/C 4/6/11
Baby #3: 8/11 pregnant EDD 4/27/11 and m/c:(
Baby #4: 10/12/11 BFP! EDD 6/16/12m/c 10/26/11
Baby #5: 3/13/12 BFP! EDD 11/25/12 ANOTHER m/c
Baby #6: 2/14/13- BFP! EDD 10/24/13, CP 2/19/13
Baby #7: 3/15/13- BFP! EDD 11/27/13, another CP
Baby #8. BFP 5/19/13 EDD 1/22/14. 8 was not our lucky number
4th septum resection on 5/31/13.
Baby #9: 6/29/13 BFP. C section scheduled for March 5th!
My miracle baby was born March 5 at 9:33am. He was 8 lbs 12.5 oz and 21.25 inches long!
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Married 11/27/09 and TTC right away
Dx: Complete septate uterus with cervical duplication, endometrial polyps, PCOS, endometriosis, hypo thyroid, luteal phase defect
4 uterus surgeries to correct my complete septum and to remove polyps and 2 years of seeing the RE, medicated cycles and IUIs
Baby 1 and 2: BFP 3/3/11 with 2 babies EDD 11/1/11, M/C 4/6/11
Baby #3: 8/11 pregnant EDD 4/27/11 and m/c:(
Baby #4: 10/12/11 BFP! EDD 6/16/12m/c 10/26/11
Baby #5: 3/13/12 BFP! EDD 11/25/12 ANOTHER m/c
Baby #6: 2/14/13- BFP! EDD 10/24/13, CP 2/19/13
Baby #7: 3/15/13- BFP! EDD 11/27/13, another CP
Baby #8. BFP 5/19/13 EDD 1/22/14. 8 was not our lucky number
4th septum resection on 5/31/13.
Baby #9: 6/29/13 BFP. C section scheduled for March 5th!
My miracle baby was born March 5 at 9:33am. He was 8 lbs 12.5 oz and 21.25 inches long!
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here is a pay calculator site
https://www.military.com/apps/reg/military-pay-calc?vlv_redir=http://www.military.com/benefits/military-pay/calculator?ESRC=ggl_mem_milpay_calc.kw&nipkw=military pay calculator&ppcseid=6110&ppcsekeyword=military+pay+calculator&mmtctg=576302580&mmtcmp=9558060&mmtmt=2&mmtgglcnt=0&mmtadid=4922400360&niadgrp=Calculator&nicmp=Military+Pay&nichan=Google
Married 11/27/09 and TTC right away
Dx: Complete septate uterus with cervical duplication, endometrial polyps, PCOS, endometriosis, hypo thyroid, luteal phase defect
4 uterus surgeries to correct my complete septum and to remove polyps and 2 years of seeing the RE, medicated cycles and IUIs
Baby 1 and 2: BFP 3/3/11 with 2 babies EDD 11/1/11, M/C 4/6/11
Baby #3: 8/11 pregnant EDD 4/27/11 and m/c:(
Baby #4: 10/12/11 BFP! EDD 6/16/12m/c 10/26/11
Baby #5: 3/13/12 BFP! EDD 11/25/12 ANOTHER m/c
Baby #6: 2/14/13- BFP! EDD 10/24/13, CP 2/19/13
Baby #7: 3/15/13- BFP! EDD 11/27/13, another CP
Baby #8. BFP 5/19/13 EDD 1/22/14. 8 was not our lucky number
4th septum resection on 5/31/13.
Baby #9: 6/29/13 BFP. C section scheduled for March 5th!
My miracle baby was born March 5 at 9:33am. He was 8 lbs 12.5 oz and 21.25 inches long!
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DH became a double above knee amputee with traumatic brain injury (TBI) - July 2009
TTC - August 2009 DX: Severe MFI & TF due to TBI
DH SA 0 count, started clomid therapy - November 2010
DH SA 0 count, increased clomid dosage - January 2011
DH SA 75 million with 60% motility!! - May 2011
IVF with ICSI ONLY OPTION - May 2011
3dt of 2 Grade A 8&7 cell embryos May 19, 2011
+HPT May 30 2011 -- Memorial Day!
Beta #1 = 34 Beta #2 = 101.8 Beta #3 = 603!
Expecting beautiful Eden Grace February 7, 2012!
I don't believe that God ever tells us "no". he has three options. Yes, not right now, or I have something better in mind. We just have to wait & see.
Ding ding ding.
Also, when you move to your DH's first duty assignment, there may be things that you need to purchase. Just before we moved into post housing for the first time, it dawned on me that we were going to need to buy a washer and dryer. Prior to this, we'd always lived in apartments that either provided w/d in the unit or a laundry room. Sure, you can always go to the laundry mat, but having a w/d is awfully nice.
You never know what you might need. If you are a one car family, you might want/need a second car. If you get a new job, you might need new work clothes. It is always a good idea to have money to cover unknowns, but especially so with the military. You may be living all the way across the country from your family.
ITA on the living within your means. Right now we have three months of expenses saved up and I will be living with family during bootcamp and A School, so that should give me a chance to save some more. Due to a family and economic disaster last year we have become VERY good at living within our means (thank goodness we had that four months of income saved up). I have been a SAHM for the last year and a half with DH working minimum wage jobs and we've still somehow been able to save.
We're a little older than your average new enlisted family and we have a little life experience under our belts. I think we'll be fine, but I always have nagging doubts.
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Thank you.
Good luck to you and your family!
I agree. You can make it... And there are financial planners on base to help you get set up, you just have to take advantage of the perks the military has to offer.
... and my husband and I live off base for LESS THAN our BAH so we use the rest for utilities and have some left over... so don't think you HAVE to live on base, because you don't and sometimes it makes more sense not to.