Secondary IF
Dumb Things Fertile People Say
Please write the dumbest thing you've ever heard a fertile person say in regards to getting pregnant.
Conceived DD after 15 cycles---
TTC #2 since 11/10---Me- Poor egg quality and supply---DH- Poor count and motility---2 rounds 75IU Follistim/IUI-BFN---5/12 150IU Follistim/IUI-Over-produced! Converted to IVF! 0 fertilized:( Rescue ICSI performed. 2 embryos transfered-BFN
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Re: Dumb Things Fertile People Say
I'll start...
I was at a lake cottage with my family this weekend. My sister was there who conceived her son "accidently" about a year ago. We were talking with her and her husband about our "next step" and she said the typical, "As soon as you stop stressing you'll get pregnant!" I said, "That's just what fertile people say! Of course fertile people don't stress.....because they get pregnant!!!!!" Geeeze.
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SAME AS YOURS!!
Mine has to be "Just relax and it will happen. All that stuff you are doing is too stressful for your body." UGH.
Beta #1 27 (13 dpo) Beta #2 143 (16 dpo) Beta #3 436 (19 dpo)
TTC since 8/09 . MC 1/15/10 @ 7w4d // 6/2/10 @ 8w2d
TTC with no menstrual cycle since 6/10, finally got one 8/25/11
"Just stop thinking about it, you are thinking toooooo haaaarddd!"
Yep, that's exactly it. I just think so hard that my uterus has a freak out and it rejects my baby.
"You already have a son, just focus on him and cherish the fact that you are a mom".
Yep, I have a son so I shouldn't even WANT another baby and when I do it's because I don't cherish the one I have. That's it.
My sister told me that she thinks I would go nuts with two by now, and it's nature's way of helping me out.
I was also told to be grateful for my son. Um, okay, because I am a not? In fact, I am so grateful for him that I would like to give him a brother or sister!
"Drink a bottle of wine and have DH make deposit and just lay in bed the rest of the night. DONT GET UP and you will get pregnant. That?s how I got my two"
"Be grateful you have a child" ? Yes, because wanting another child makes me not grateful for the one I have.
When I had my suspected c/p lst June...
"Oh, well that's a good sign...at least you got pregnant" (my mom)
Yeah, thanks. That makes me feel so much better.....
*TW loss and children mentioned*
Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen
Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019
My friend keeps telling me oh you will get pregnant when it is suppose to happen, you dont need to go to the specialist. If it is meant to be it will just happen. Plus if you go back to the specialist you will have triplets so just let nature take its course.
I had a male acquaintence at work ask me when we were having another. After not taking my hints that its not really as easy as wanting to have another, I flat out said we were having trouble. I guess I should have been more specific about having trouble keeping a pregnancy (verses getting pregnant), and his final response to me was (yelling across the parking lot); "Take some fertility pills! You could have three at once!"
Fvcking idiot.
Trying for #2 since July 2010
BFP 8/1/10, missed m/c, D&C 9/15/10.
BFP 1/8/11, chemical pregnancy.
BFP 3/4/11, measured behind all along, no more HB 4/18/11. D&C 4/29/11. HCG didn't drop, Repeat D&C 6/17/11; confirmed molar pregnancy 6/23/11.
Forced break, including two Hysteroscopies in October to remove retained tissue.
BFP 12/29/11! Betas @ 10 dpo = 85, 14 dpo= 498, 22 dpo = 7242
Heard HB 1/24/12. 144 bpm!
Luca Rose born 9/9/12! More than worth the wait!
I got the same... "well at least you know you can get pregnant"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~after 34 cycles we finally got our 2nd little bundle of joy~
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