Hi ladies. I haven't had the gumption to post over here yet, so allow me to introduce myself. And congrats to all of you! I know what a nasty business this IF stuff is.
So, we TTCd for 2.5 years before finally getting a BFP on our 3rd round of IVF on August 2nd (yay!). I had a major bleed on August 3rd and we were in beta hell for the next week. The bleeding ultimately stopped and my HCG levels doubled approriately. We had our first ultrasound last week at 6w1d. The baby was measuring 5w5d with a heartbeat of 98. Our doctor said not to worry about the measurements as they were within the margin of error. The hearbeat was right on the cusp of being normal (my doc likes to see 100) Tried not to worry (easier said than done). We had our second ultrasound today at 7w2d. The baby is measuring 6w5d and the hearbeat is at 150. So the nugget is basically measuring 4 days behind, the growth betwen ultrasounds was 7 days' worth over an 8 day span, and our doctor described the heartbeat as "robust".
I asked the doc whether she was concerned about the measurements. She said the discrepancy was within the 3-4 mm error rate, but that she could understand my concern. She said clinically there is no real reason for concern, but if she were in my position she would feel the same way. I go back next Friday for another ultrasound. More limbo...ick. I'm trying to relax about it, but finding it pretty impossible. Anyone have any similar experiences they could share? I appreciate honesty, so any outcome is welcome. Thanks!
Re: Slow Growth + Strong Hearbeat = FREAKING OUT (long, sorry)
DH became a double above knee amputee with traumatic brain injury (TBI) - July 2009
TTC - August 2009 DX: Severe MFI & TF due to TBI
DH SA 0 count, started clomid therapy - November 2010
DH SA 0 count, increased clomid dosage - January 2011
DH SA 75 million with 60% motility!! - May 2011
IVF with ICSI ONLY OPTION - May 2011
3dt of 2 Grade A 8&7 cell embryos May 19, 2011
+HPT May 30 2011 -- Memorial Day!
Beta #1 = 34 Beta #2 = 101.8 Beta #3 = 603!
Expecting beautiful Eden Grace February 7, 2012!
I don't believe that God ever tells us "no". he has three options. Yes, not right now, or I have something better in mind. We just have to wait & see.
After 2 1/2 years TTC, 3 IUI's, endo, and a lap, a surprise BFP brought us Alexandra Marie!
Thanks ladies! Fingers crossed for next week.
I'll give you my rundown (although it's in my sig for the most part):
2nd IVF ... beta's were doubling but not within 48 .. more in the 60+ hour range.
First scan was at 5 weeks 4 days. All we saw was a small sac. Smaller than normal. He told me it was 50/50.
Next scan was at 6 weeks 5 days. All we saw was an empty, but larger gestational sac.
Scan #3 was at 7 weeks 1 day ... we now see a yolk sac but measuring 6 weeks 2 days (almost a full week behind) and possibly a heartbeat but it was too faint to measure.
Scan #4 was at 7 weeks 5 days ... discuss D&C and then we do one more scan and baby came into view. Measuring 6 weeks 4 days and still no measurable heartbeat yet we could see it flickering. Said to prepare that there wouldn't be a heartbeat in a week.
Scan #5 at 8 weeks 4 days... baby catches up, measures 8 weeks 2 days and heartrate is 168.
Scan #6 (today) at 9 weeks 4 days ... babe measures 9 weeks 2 days and heart rate is 171.
So don't lose hope!! You're doing fine!!!
Our Journey to Brenden
IVF #1: 4/11(Follistim/Menopur/Ganirelix) 10 retrieved/8 mature and all 8 fertilized / 2 embies transferred ... nothing to freeze Beta 5/10 = BFN
IVF Take 2 Long Lupron July 2011
ER 7/3/11 (our 6th anniversary) - 8 retrieved/7 mature/fert ....ET 7/6/11 - 2 beautiful grade A 8 cell embryos
Beta 7/18/11 - 149!!! Beta 7/21/11 - 311 Beta 7/28/11 - 2,000 8/5/11 - Empty Sac 8/8/11 - There's a yolk sac and maybe a heartbeat 8/12/11 - Fetal pole, yolk sac, heartbeat 8/18/11 - Baby looks GREAT!
3 babies waiting on ice
I had something similar happen to me. Betas were good and showed I was 5 or 6 weeks. I knew I was 5w5d because I triggered and beta was high enough that they should have been able to see something on the ultrasound but all they saw was an empty gestational sac. I was devastated but told to return in a week (in the meantime I traveled home from Kenya where I was living during the IF).
I had an ultrasound at 7w2d and they immediately saw a baby and a strong heartbeat. Turns out I have an anteverted uterus which makes measurements very difficult early in pregnancy. They kept dating me several days behind (and couldn't even see the baby at first). I'm now almost 20 weeks and baby is actually measuring several days ahead which my OB says is probably more accurate. My anatomy just made the TV ultrasound measurements very difficult.
I was annoyed that they didn't tell me that there was possibly a totally reasonable explanation that they baby was measuring small. I think your LOs strong HB is a great sign and you should try (as much as possible) to stay strong!!!
Currently back stateside but missing Kenya!
Our baby measured 6 days behind at our 6 week and 9 week scan, but caught up at the 12 week one. Take heart, your baby is growing and their little heart is beating away!
Congrats!