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Jezebell26
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XP: Again?!?!?
Jezebell26
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I can not believe I am writing this....again...
Yesterday we had our u/s for hb at 9am. We saw a perfect little baby with a hb. There was another sac (maybe a twin not sure) but it was in the way of him being able to really measure the hb. He told us he's 90% sure everything was fine and said the baby looked perfect. We were to come back in 1 week to get a better look and check for growth. Everything else on the baby was measuring perfect and the RE was definitely pleased. Earlier in the week i had some bleeding from an irritated cervix. When we left the RE's office i felt some cramping and pressure and figured he irritated me from the u/s. By the time we got home (barely 40 minutes) I could feel I was bleeding or something. I barely made it up the stairs and there was blood everywhere, complete with clots. Ok, maybe im irritated. Put on a pad and hang out for a bit. Im having waves of cramps (seriously probably contractions) and really didnt think this was good. Not even an hour later i have soaked through the pad and my clothes and have passed clots. Fabulous. Call the RE who was shocked by what i was telling him, given we were just there and had a fabulous u/s. He said if the bleeding continued and i kept passing clots that we would have to go to the ER. Now mind you, Hurricane Irene was rolling in. We were limited in hospital choices because some stated to evacuate and some just suck. Not even another hour later and ive soaked through another pad and more clothes. Poor DH was in denial and dragging his feet about going. Yeah no one likes the ER, especially during a hurricane! I finally convince him we should go now and better to be safe then sorry.
We called the RE and he agreed we should go to the ER, he was even in denial that i was m/c. We get there and wait for about an hour and by then, ive soaked through more clothes. I finally get into a room and over the course of many hours i had an internal exam which showed my cervix was dialated at least a fingertip and she could see more clots. Then an ultrasound and some bloodwork. Finally we got the results that the u/s showed "heterogenous material in the endometrium", no sac, no perfect baby that was there not even 12 hours ago. I continued to m/c in the hospital and by the time we were given the news it was over. They called it a "spontaneous abortion". The ER dr spoke to my RE on the phone and they confirmed it was over. I was discharged (with a UTI none the less) and was told i could discontinue Crinone, Estrace and PIO. We made it home before the storm hit.
I dont know what to do with myself. My RE is so upset and wants to run a lot of tests. I am willing to stick it out with him and see what he comes up with and may start looking for another specialist on the side. I love him and dont want to leave him but we need to find out why i cant stay pregnant. Getting pregnant doesn't seem to be a problem, but i can't keep a baby past 6 weeks. DH and i have decided to take a lot of time off, get healthy drop some weight and keep trying on our own. You never know. Thanks for all of your continued support! xoxoxo
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Re: XP: Again?!?!?
I am so, so sorry you are going through this pain again. You and YH are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope your RE can run some tests and find some answers for you both. ((hugs))
April 2011: Metformin 1500mg + Clomid 100mg + Ovidrel + Prometrium = BFP!
Beta #1 at 14DPO: 197 Beta #2 at 18DPO: 1296
At 40w6d, our Team Green surprise came by unplanned C-section and changed our lives forever!
TTC Since April 2010
Dx: Hypothyroid, High FSH, Low progesterone, Blocked left tube
BFP 5-2-11; m/c 5-9-11
July 2011: 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #1 (7/13) + Progesterone = BFP!!
EDD: 4/04/12
DH became a double above knee amputee with traumatic brain injury (TBI) - July 2009
TTC - August 2009 DX: Severe MFI & TF due to TBI
DH SA 0 count, started clomid therapy - November 2010
DH SA 0 count, increased clomid dosage - January 2011
DH SA 75 million with 60% motility!! - May 2011
IVF with ICSI ONLY OPTION - May 2011
3dt of 2 Grade A 8&7 cell embryos May 19, 2011
+HPT May 30 2011 -- Memorial Day!
Beta #1 = 34 Beta #2 = 101.8 Beta #3 = 603!
Expecting beautiful Eden Grace February 7, 2012!
I don't believe that God ever tells us "no". he has three options. Yes, not right now, or I have something better in mind. We just have to wait & see.
IVF #1: 4-11-11= Transferred 1 beautiful blastocyst I named "Nugget"
5 Snowbabies! Beta#1 4/21= BFP! 226; Beta#2 4/25= 944
DS born 12/14/11
Baby #2 FET Nov/Dec 2013
12/13 Beta#1=BFP 349; 12/16 Beta#2=1,089. First ultrasound 12/26. DS#2 born 8/8/14
~~PAIF/SAIF Always Welcome~~
~TTC since June 2009~
~March 2011: Diagnosed with Unexplained IF~
~50 mg Clomid Cycles in March, April, and May--BFN~
***Surprise BFP 07-18-2011***
~Beta 1: 585 07-19-11~ ~Beta 2: 2218 07-22-11~
Our Little Blessing was born on March 31, 2012
I am so sorry, sweetheart. I'm so sad and angry for you. It's just not fair.
((big giant bear hugs))
"When the world says, 'Give up,' Hope whispers, 'Try one more time.'" -Anonymous
TTC#1 for 19 months with PCOS and MFI IUI#3 + injectables = BFP!!!! Beta#1-134(13dpiui) Beta #2-392(15dpiui)
#1 born December 2011
TTC#2 - Beta #1 -51@10dpo Beta#2 -1353 @16dpo
#2 born May 2013
TTC # 3 June 2014 BFP 12-1-14
#3 born August 2015
#4!!!!!!! due June 2017
IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer
Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
**P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**
2004- DX with PCOS
6/2011- Gonal-F + Ganirelix + Oviderl and Crinone= BFP
7/7/2011 Beta #1 119 Beta #2 563 Beta#3 4178
http://tinypic.com/r/25z7709/8
TTC #1 since Jan 09
Jul 2010 - HSG, SA, U/S BW - all clear
Nov 2010- Mar 2011 - 50mg Clomid, HCG Trigger & IUI 1-4 All BFN
Apr/May 2011 break
June 2011 - New RE, New Plan
July 2011 - Gonal F, Ovidrel & IUI #5
July 2011 surprise BFP on a break cycle before injects!!! Please let this be it!
Cautiously expecting our miracle on Feb 25, 2012
Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
11/10 - Clomid Round 1 = BFN
12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
3/11 - Femara + IUI = BFP * Beta#1=56 * Beta#2=266
*Cautiously expecting baby girls on November 28, 2011*
After 2 1/2 years TTC, 3 IUI's, endo, and a lap, a surprise BFP brought us Alexandra Marie!
4 Clomid cycles BFN's,3 injectible cycles BFN, 3 failed IUI's
Hystroscopy to remove cysts 11/2010
IVF #1 with ICSI Graydon Dane born Oct. 23, 2011 via c-section at 38 weeks.
Surprise BFP 10/9/12. Blighted ovum at 8wks. D&C 11/1/12.
Surprise BFP#2 TWINS!!! Boy/Girl twins.
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie
"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
I am so sorry for your loss! (((HUGS)))
I hope your RE can find a plan for you, and in the meantime that you're able to enjoy your time off and trying on your own.
A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP
2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF
I am so so sorry
I hope you can find some answers. ((HUGS))